How do you keep your cool
By sharon_
@sharon_ (1169)
United States
3 responses
@Mahini (14)
• Australia
11 Jul 07
Hi Sharon you have done the only thing that any mature adult would do ..so good on you :) i dont realy think that there is anything else that you could have done or should do ... take care hope things go well for you ..Regards Mahini
@sharon_ (1169)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Thank you. I have been in several situations in the past where I was so angry, that I would verbally lash out. I have learned that it really didn't do any good. What works is a lot of patience. I wait until "whoever" is calmer, then I talk to them. I have gone through too much to put up with anyones b.s.
@snoopy04 (718)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I will tell my husband that now is not a good time to discuss this and that I need to take a break before I say something I will regret. I will go sit on our swing on our patio for about a hour and then I will come back inside and try to have a mature discussion. Nine times out of ten this always works. When I get mad I will say whats ever on my mind and it always ends up making matters worse. My husband will just get up and go to the bedroom and watch tv and I know to leave him alone so he can cool down as well.
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@maui_gomez_lim (1017)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
turn my back on them.. I really can't stop myself once started from throwing back words. argghhh..
