Will you forgive your adulterous husband?

I would not forgive my husband if he committed adultery against me. I have been cheated on way to many times in the past from previous relationships and i have gave them a secondchance only for them to do it to me again. I can never trust someone after they do that to me. I feel like they will never respect me agian because they didn't the first time.

The answer for me is... No! Definately a firm no... To me, its something very horrendous and something i cannot and wouldnt be able to accept... We got married coz we believe in love, believe in each other, believe in our love for each other... But to do something to destory this love and trust is very simple... A marriage is very hard to maintain... Thus i think trust faith communication and love is very important... U have all that for me, thus we get married.. But why betray me and do all those stuff to hurt me if u ever love me? Maybe im selfish, i cant take it... If he chooses to stray, it means either our feelings has changed, or we wasnt doing too well together... Since he chosen that path, i respect him and he can stay that way, for im never gonna forgive him... Its just too riduculous for anyone to accept... I really salute those girls who can stand these things...

I think it would depend on who it was with and stuff I know sometimes feeling can come between two people and things happen but I feel that when confronted the truth also needs to be told and talking needs to be done then yes I could forgive