Would you still love your ex?

@tombiz (2036)
Philippines
July 11, 2007 8:12pm CST
You and your ex have been separated for almost one year. Then the person suddenly appeared again, and is telling you to come back to the relationship. Would you give the person another chance?
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15 responses
@ibuemma (2953)
• United States
12 Jul 07
It depend how the break up. If it really messy and hurt me so bad, i don't think so. It's just i don't want to repeat the same mistakes.
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@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
23 Jul 07
If that happened to me i will not give second chance but i will be his friend. I am give any precaution because he already left me and he will come back what he is aftering to me. So just friends is ok but being sweetheart no and no.
• Singapore
22 Jul 07
This really depends on how we broke up in the first place and what my current circumstances are. If I am already in a new relationship, then it would be unlikely that I would give my ex another chance since I already have someone new in my life. If we broke up because he had been abusive or really nasty on many occasions, I wouldn't get back with him either since it is unlikely that he had changed his ways so why bother to put myself through the same thing again?
• Indonesia
23 Jul 07
There must be reasons for the chance to my ex ask if so. If I havent fallen for another person, if I still love him for sure. I dont want to be regret for life just becoz I am too proud to give him a chance though I still love him right. But if he was his fault that coz the broke up thing than he must not repeat the same mistake again.
• United States
17 Jul 07
It really depends on the issues of the relationship, reasons for breaking up, and how each person is now. If there was a problem before and nothing has changed as in the people involved or the circumstances of the situation, then what's the point?? But true love does conquer all if that's the basis.
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
18 Jul 07
Depends on the reason why we broke up. If he just left without a word, then a second chance would definitely be a no-no! He hurt me once, there would be a chance he would hurt me again.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
I am actually experiencing that situation as of the moment. But the difference is he doesn't tell me if he wants to come back. We haven't seen each other for more than 4 years and now he appeared to me one night and asked if he could sleep over my place. Can't decline or resist. I was too accommodating and offered my a space. I don't expect us to be together as couple again because he is committed to someone else and I also have mine.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I'm not sure if I would still love my ex and give them another chance at the relationship or not. I have been through alot of bad relationships in the past and gave alot of them a second chance only for them to hurt me and leave me again. I may still have feelings for them but if they leave me once, they willmore than likely do it again.
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
It depends if i still love him and why we broke up then.. I wanna hear also his reasons of coming back to me.. Then if his reasons is acceptable then i'll give him another chance.. Anybody deserves second chance to prove him/herself after all.. And maybe this second chance means that we're really meant for each other to be together forever..
@nigtvamp (102)
• United States
13 Jul 07
No. For two and a half years, I was lied to ,cheated on, played games with, emotionally and mentally neglected, as well as physically neglected later on the relationship. He has had one relationship since we broke up and did the same things to her that he did to me, including copping out of the relationship after getting the girl pregnant. In short, he would get told where he could take his feelings and shove them.
@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
well, of course.. for no reason,, i just want him back..
@luodepo (29)
• China
12 Jul 07
I'll review what's the reason for our separation,whether it's my fault or not. if i still love she/her, maybe i'll accept it.but it should be a very dilemma.
@Lady_Yeng (102)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
for me that depends on the degree of love i felt for him... it really doesnt matter how long it takes for as long as i still love him i could start all over again with him....
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
yes.. my ex and i were separated for almost two years already but i still love him and im still waiting him to come back.. :(
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
12 Jul 07
I don't feel that falling out of love is usually what ends the relationship. It is mainly something that they did to hurt the other that causes the relationship to end. After a year? No, I would not go back to them. First of all, I will have gone to far in the healing process to risk going back to that person and having the same thing happen again. I choose not to go backwards.