loving someone without expecting in return (ur views about this)

Philippines
July 11, 2007 9:13pm CST
hi guys.. can you love someone without expecting love in return?? well for me, i can't.. of course in a way, i want him to love me too.. how about you? what is your opinion about this? help me enlighten my mind about this... all answers is higly appreciated.. thanks and god bless!!
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8 responses
• United States
13 Jul 07
In a way yes and in a way no. It really depends. There are lot of things to be considered first. You should analyze things before making expections from him/her. Heartsick, Don't expect too much on love because when you EXPECT more, you HURT more and when you get hurt you even more, HATE will grow in your heart. Will you allow that?.. Of course not. I wanna share some lines that I have read from a forwarded mail of a friend about love... "Love is not getting what you have, not even getting what you deserve. It is getting nothing but somehow getting everything". Remember... Love is patient. Patience is a virtue. ;)
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• Philippines
13 Jul 07
magaling magaling magaling!! bravo.. i agree to that..
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
Loving someone without expecting to be loved in return is a kind of love worth feeling for. For a while you might say, that would be stupidity in the highest level. But then, would it be really stupid to just love someone without expecting you'd be loved too? No, I don't think so. I would say, that's bravery, and might be real love. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says it all. That is, if you could stay in love with that person for a long time. Believe me, I was once in there. I got tired of the situation and realized I cannot be that kind of person - loving someone without him loving me too.
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@sreevasu (2717)
• India
12 Jul 07
This is called unconditional love and unconditional love is the true love. It is too hard for all to attain. A little hard for me too to a certain extend.
@kyutstudph (1263)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
When You love Someone you dont have to expect love in return.It Inevitably Makes You Feel Warm and Loving On The Inside - Without A Doubt. If It Doesn't, Then You Need To Upgrade Your self Being and Knowledge. Too Many People Give With The Expectation of Receiving love In Return. You Can't Do That.You Didn't Give Because You Are A Caring & Loving Person; Instead, You Gave Because You Wanted Others To Know That You Gave, Who You Gave To, How Much You Gave, Where You Gave, and When You Gave. What Type of love Do You Expect To Receive, If You Make Those You Gave To In The First Place, Feel As Unfortunate As They Really Are?
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• Philippines
15 Jul 07
loving and not expecting something in return is part of the love you are giving....why would you love when you are expecting something in return....i don't expect something in return...i just wait for some good things to happen to the good deed i have done...
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
tnx for the response.. :)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
your'e welcome.....
@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
it takes two to tango. if it's a one way thing forget about you will get no where and end up being miserable.
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
we always wanted to be loved. but what if the person you fell in love with didnt have the same feelings for you. we cant just force ourselves not to love. there's no harm in loving someone without expecting his love in return. as long as im sure about how i feel about him, so any other question will i ask..
@mybizla (136)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 07
of course we need to love each other.