what will you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend cheat?
By bhelle123
@bhelle123 (290)
Canada
July 11, 2007 11:02pm CST
i have my boyfriend for about 4 four years, were so closed to each other my family and his family, in my surprised the news hit me, my boyfriend got another woman and its pregnant, nobody believes that he cheated like that. its very painful, i cried so much!!! about two weeks he did not visit me, i wanted to talk to him, ask him why he did that, i love him though, he ask an apology and i accept it, he cried too. he said its not his intention to hurt me but it happens. and so i said "ok, everything's happen, so were still good friend" how about you? would you accept his/her apology? and still be friend?
3 responses
@patricia24 (568)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
I will forgive him because i dont want him to think about me when his faing his obligations. I dont want to be the reason of his problems. I want to move on so id rather forgive and forget. maybe its not that easy but still i have to do so.
@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
12 Jul 07
you have a good point there...were the same i have to move on, though its painful but you are not meant for each other that's why its happen. thanks for the response.
have a nice day
@buri2_jaemon (619)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 07
i think if my girlfriend cheating on me i will mad and very upsad with her because i don't like to cheat so i don't want my girlfriend cheating on me, and if this happen to me i will dumped her and never want to come back with her..
@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
12 Jul 07
i know your opinion, because you are a man...most of the man like that, dumped the woman right away if they know her partner is cheating, that's good too...to let her know that she is not capable to your trust and love.
@hahzen63 (157)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
I've been through a similar situation 3 times to be exact and believe me its no joking matter. But then, if he was gentleman enough to admit the fact that he did something wrong, both of you could still be friends. Not intimate, but probably just friends. It would also be one test on your relationship. Some people still accept the situation and go on with it. As for me, it would be on to the dumps if he did it and did not even admit despite all evidences pointing a finger towards his direction.
In the end, trust would be an important element for any relationship. Without it, it would be like a boat with a hole down the bottom. It could still float for awhile, but most of the time, water just gets in and everything else sinks.
tc
@bhelle123 (290)
• Canada
12 Jul 07
thanks for your good idea...he talk to my parents about the mistakes he made, even it is very painful but you have to accept the truth that maybe were not meant for each other, the woman too sent a letter to me asking for an apology and she accept that its her fault and not my boyfriend. she said she's willing to give up if i still accept my boyfriend.
