Do you think there is a difference between Religion and Spirituality?

Canada
July 12, 2007 12:09am CST
As I my owl and I 'fly around with our own wings' to different sites it is clear to me that some Mylotters think religion and spirituality are the same...others think they are different. Associated words in the dictionary may help to set a framework for this discussion. For example religion has the following descriptors: belief, church, orthadoxy, affilation, denomination,creed, dogma. Whereas spirituality's associative meanings are: devout, divine, holy, sacred, spirited, metaphyisical, godly, saintly, sanctified. The differences provide some clues to where I am going on my view...so here it is. Personally I think they have parallels, but I have observed that religous people are not necessarily spiritual. Nor are all spiritual people religious...in terms of aligning themselves with traditional orthodoxy. For example some 'religious' people exhibit a lack of love (the one commandment in all great religions) in the way followers of a particular theology condemn and judge others because they do not worship the way they 'should.' They claim to have found the right and only way to heaven, God, enlightenment or whatever their warcry is...it is not loving, honoring, respectful...nor does it treat others the way they would like to be treated. In other cases I have found some non-religious people to be extremely spiritual. By that I mean they express unconditional love towards all living things, respect differences even when they disagree and have an innate goodness than transcends religious dogma. Yet I have witnessed those very loving beings (who appear to know God and be a beautiful representation of our Creator's attributes)...condemned to hell by some 'believers' because they do not follow a certain religion. This is a complicated topic...but one I trust we will be able to explore in a respectful dialogue the way we have so far. At least I hope so...as I have often said..no right or wrong answers....just shared 'perspectives.' Right?
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@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
13 Jul 07
I am not an expert on this and I won't pretend that I know the answer. I will simply tell you how I feel about it. Spirituality is something you are born with. Just like a true artist is born an artist. You don't go to school to learn to be an artist. Those who do go to school are already artistic and were drawing and painting during their childhood. Religion only teach you to worship God. It does not teach you spirituality. Non religious people are far more spiritual than religious people. Spirituality is about searching for impossible answers. Searching for the meaning of life... searching for the reason of the Universe...etc... While you are searching... you are discovering... questionning... and are very impressed with the immensity of the task... That's spirituality. There is nothing spiritual in accepting that God created everything. That is just far too simple. There is no challenge into that. You are just worshipping a God. You are not even allowed to question him or his motives. Spirituality is about using your brain and thinking for yourself.
• Canada
15 Jul 07
Thank you for your great overview...the ideas you have presented are stated in a way that in my view are inarguable. Not that I would argue anyway...because your perpective is very similar to mine. I have received an immense amount of enjoyment from this discussion...probably more than any other so far. Responses like yours and all the others confirms what I try to live by...that we are all students and teachers to each other as we move along the discovery trails of life. Your participation and insights are greatly appreciated.
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• United States
12 Jul 07
Hi Coralie! In the past, I thought of "religion" as being organized into groups who follow a certain doctrine or dogma, whether it be ancient or modern, which was originally set by someone calling themselves a prophet or having a direct link of some sort to their God. A hierarchy of some sort is always used and those at the top of this hierarchy claim to be able to interpret their chosen doctrine and then teach their interpretation to their followers as the absolute and only truth and no deviation is permitted. This is not true for all of course. The spirituality aspect is so incredibly broad that I could write non-stop for the next several weeks and not scratch the surface! So I don't think I'll even try. My definition has little to do with the dictionary's definition, but here's my personal interpretation and relationship with the concept in a nutshell. To me it's finding your path in this world by finding your own spirit, fire, will, lifeforce, whatever you chose to call it, within yourself and how you relate it to the universe around you. This is where you make your choice to be moral or immoral, good or evil, peaceful or hateful. Religion has nothing to do with it, it is a choice of free will. I do agree with your observations about the differences between people who call themselves religious and those who call themselves spiritual. So many seek religion to find a way to relate to or make a personal connection to their chosen diety and in the process lose themselves. They get so wrapped up in ritual and dogma that the focus is no longer on the diety and what that diety is supposed to represent, but fear. The religion strips them of their own spirituality because it is forbidden to question or challenge without fear of punishment from the deity or excommunication from the congregation. Religion controls by fear and fear always breaks the spirit. I think that is why the "holier than thou's" tend to be so rude, overbearing and disrespectful. They are so controlled by fear that they know no other way to treat those who don't believe exactly as they do but to try to influence by threatening with all sorts of horrific punishments. On the other hand the people who still believe in free will and find their own spirituality are the ones who seem to be the peacemakers and still respect other's right to their personal beliefs even if they don't agree with them. For those who find a deity they can believe in and yet keep their own spirituality, kudos to them. It's a balance that's hard to find. Personally it's taken me oh so many years to find my path but worth every minute of it. I will continue to obtain as much knowledge as I can and if my path changes a bit, that's ok. I expect it to change and grow as I do. I think spirituality should be a lifelong pursuit.
• Canada
13 Jul 07
Hi Craftchatcher...good to have you here again. Thank you for stopping by and adding so many valid 'perspectives' to the topic. I absolutely agree with you that the topic of spirituality is so broad that we have only scratched the surface here. From the responses here it is obviously something people want to dialogue about...in a respectufl way as I had requested. I, like you will continue to 'grow my soul' in alifelong pursuit for spiritual understanding and enlightenment. My inner growth process and healing journey has created many 'transformational changes' and will undoubtedly continue until it is time to leave this plane. Your comments about how some religious affiliations can strip followers of their spirituality is a sad, but true statement of fact. Fear-based thinking leads people in the opposite direction...and I completely support you viewpoint on the arrogance of those caught in limiting ties that bind...and blind them to any other way but their own. I feel empathy in way...because in my opinion...as yours...they have lost their way. Your comments about those who believe in free will and pursue their pathways in peaceful, honoring ways resonate for me. I agree wholehardedly having the confidence to find my own path and live life on my terms within the Onesong of Creation has been worth the challenges I faced to get here. My intent to find like minded others through the law of attraction is definitely working...(as I knew it would.) The strength of your convictions, the honoring way you respect differences reveals to me you are a kindred soul...and I thank you for sharing your perspective in such a clear voice!
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• United States
13 Jul 07
I definately believe that religion and spirituality are two different things. I am not really religious. I do not go to church and I don't follow a dogma. I do consider myself spiritual though as I see the beauty in all things... I feel that any place can be "holy" or whatever word is better for it. You know like I can be outside somewhere in the mountains in a garden, etc and I just feel at peace.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
13 Jul 07
Then you know how to 'centre', Withoutwings. That is something no human or religion can teach! They may lead you there, but opening the gate to the garden has to be done by your own hand - and your hand must be guided to the gate itself only by the One who wants you to enter the garden. You are blessed.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I for one think spiritual people are more good hearted. I have seen to much stuff going on in churches or really big on church poeple do so many worng things in my eyes that I stopped going. To me I think I am spiritual. FOr I like getting along with every one I can and I also feel like I can see things and interput them on my own, Just looking at the animals and sky and things that grows are a wonder to me and I like to watch them.Something had to create these things but I dont beleive in Bible thumpers . for after all the bible was wrote by men oh they may have had visions of what to write , but it is still a history of man.I like to read about that visionarys ( oh why can I call there names ) ok Nastradomus and ( darn) the feler that would sleep and tell what he seen like aroras around poeple andtell the future like it has turn out to be. Blessings
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Jul 07
awwww thnks I feel like we have connected pretty good. Keep them coming lol hugs and blessings
• Canada
13 Jul 07
Greetings sweet friend Lakota12...thanks for stopping by and visiting this sharing circle of like-minded others. I agree with you that spiritual people are more good hearted. As craftcatcher said...they are more peaceful, accepting and honoring of others. From our brief time of getting to know each other I would agree that you are spiritual. Your posts reveal your concern and empathy for others. And another parallel...I don't believe much of what the bible thumpers 'thump' about either. It is true many of the mystics and visionaries are fascinating people to read about. I was wondering if the sleeping prophet you are speaking about is Edgar Cayce? His readings and what he stated about Biblical interpretations and providing information to assist people with their healing shows how ahead of his time he was. Great to have you and your wise woman ways participating...thanks again and Bright Blessings to you too!
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• Canada
22 Jul 07
That is what DanaMark said...that I get him to think too much. It was part of the reason I posted the 'follow your bliss'..just so we all wouldn't have to think so much. That probably won't last too long though...all these philosophical observations about people and life are what I do for a living...but it is only work if you don't like it...and I love it! Whatever you add Lokata12..I sense how much you do think about the topic. You have your own special brand of wise woman thinking that I respect. I also appreciate they way you add things as you 'think' of them. So your participation adds to every discussion...and you know I'm happy with the connection we have. Wishing you warmth and light to brighten your path.
@ratburn (939)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
you have an interesting perspective, Perspective. i think that there is a difference between religion and spirituality. i think i read somewhere that religion is culturally based. i believe so too. we are usually born into a certain religion because our parents have the same religion or our country has that common religion. spirituality has something to do with your connection to a higher being. it's faith and passion about something. it doesn't have to be labeled as what not. one can be very spiritual and yet do not have a religion. i think that religion and spirituality are not one and the same but they share a lot of similarities. this is indeed a very interesting discussion!
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@ratburn (939)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
i do hope people will respect each other's differences. i believe it is the solution to misunderstandings, fights, and even war. it is not just about love, but more of respect for each other's beliefs and differences. we don't even have to change our views for the other. we just have to acknowledge that there are other perspectives other than our own.
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• Canada
13 Jul 07
Thank you for commenting both on the topic...and my perspective. I also value your input about it being an interesting discussion. Yes, it is a subject that gives reason to pause. My hope is that dicussions like thise will underscore that bigotry, harsh, condemning judgments of others in what I call 'religious snobbery' is a far cry from a broader comprehension of true spirituality. The responses from you and others who are participating reveal to me that there are many who already know the difference. Maybe we can assist others in changing their perspective enough to respect differences...even when they do not agree. Thanks for adding your views to the topic...hope you come back again.
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• Canada
19 Jul 07
Great answer...empowering pespective...thank you ratburn!
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I think religion is what you HAVE...that is what one was raised up as and in and is usually associated with as you say a church/creed dogma, affiliation, etc...and you're right, people who follow there religion aren't always spiritual...but that's not necessarily the case...Look at someone like Mother Teresa...she was affiliated with a church and strict dogmas of her religion, but I can't think of anyone who didn't deserve more the label of spiritual than she, aside from maybe Gandhi--they were both religious and spiritual. All religious dogmas are beautiful in concepts...each and everyone of them....Its unfortunate how mankind will often translate the religions to suit their purposes to tame the masses..More wars have been created by religion since many will have the "I'm better than you" concept --so sad when you think of it, cause maybe one day people will wake up to understand that all religions really ARE basically the same...that is a belief in a supreme or divine creator(s)---only with a different label On the other flip of the coin are people who are spiritual but don't necessarily follow a strict religion--or at least they may follow a "religion" or way of life that is different from the expected "norm"--and I'm thinking here in terms of my own beliefs of wiccan/pagan--Yes we do have in a sense "rules" too to follow by---but we're not confined to a belief that our religious beliefs are better...at least I hope not!! Since ours is a nature based religion we have a great respect for all life and living things--and I would like to think that we give respect to those who are of different more orthodox religions rather than condemn them..which unfortunately hasn't been the case in the opposite--as you say .."condemned to hell by some "believers" because they do not follow a certain religion.."
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• Canada
12 Jul 07
Hi again, Good to have another chance to chat. I've haven't been able to spend as much time on Mylot the last couple of days. I have two magazine articles to finish before the end of the week. Anyway I appreciate your views on this topic. You have offered some good examples of people who have merged the two and are religious, but also loving, compassionate, respectful, kind...and very spiritual. My spiritual beliefs are more aligned to yours...I remember the first time someone called me a Pagan...I paused consideered that and then said yes, I guess I am. My hubby and I also have a great respect for all living things and live in an energy based, metphysical reality. To me love is the key...as I have said on other sites...with enough love we could resolve all our human rights concerns. Maybe someday. Good chatting...I always welcome your input.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I haven't been AS active either here ....am trying to catch up especially in replying to responses to my discussion..I'm back-logged--I actually poke fun at myself and call myself a born again pagan...LOL--for some reason people seem to accept that better than if I said I was a witch..so be it
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
15 Jul 07
I'm glad you like my Born Again Pagan/witch label--I'm so behind now in responding to comments it's not funny...and trying to type as fast as possible...LOL--I love your discussions as they are always very thought provoking...and oh yes, will keep you posted on my journey into the law of attraction
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
12 Jul 07
As another owl, it seems natural that I should find myself very much in accord with what you say. I think that, to understand the difference between religion and spirituality at all, one has to have had an experience of spirituality. I would like to think that everyone will eventually have some kind of spiritual experience in their lives. That can equally apply to atheists, I would suggest, as to those who believe in a non-human spiritual entity or entities. I happen never to have been a totally convinced atheist, so it is not possible for me to say for sure what kind of spiritual experience an atheist might have but I still believe it possible. It may be that those who do not see a difference between religion and spirituality have not yet found the point where the two divide. I think that all religions (or all that are worthy of the name) are based on and grow out of spirituality. I would posit that religion developed for two reasons. The first was to organise and contain people's fear of the unpredictable and to attempt to find a pattern in or a reason for things over which humans appear to have no control. The second was the social and ultimately political power it gave to control a community. Perhaps that is, after all, a natural concomitant of communal worship with or without a priesthood. It's a big and dangerous topic to embark on but the main reasons for the existence of religion are (1) an individual's need to feel part of a community united in giving a meaning to and combating the unpredictable nature of life and (2) the obvious advantage it gives to leaders of a community in organising, controlling and policing the community. [Note: I use the word 'policing' with emphasis on its sense of imposing or ratifying a policy or enforcing a set of rules or morals.] That is, perhaps, a somewhat cynical view of religion which might be inclined to have atheists nodding in agreement. It is only part of the picture, however, because what sets a religion apart from any other system of science and morality is its recognition of spirituality. Anyone who has had a spiritual experience will know that it can be incredibly scary. Something happens to us inside, which either seems to have no relation to the physical world in which we have grown up or it changes our perception of it radically, and that experience often urgently needs some explanation and assurance that we are not alone in having it. Religion can be thought of as an organisation set up by those who have already had a spiritual experience both to guide those who need the assurance mentioned and to lead people to have such an experience by teaching the wisdom (perhaps, 'collection of universal truths') that comes from it. So religion has a valid social function and, arguably, could not have existed without spirituality but spirituality is an individual’s response to an experience of something other than the physical world of the five senses. It may derive from and gain confidence from adherence to a religion but, since it is individual and not corporate or rather, communal, it does not, of itself, require an involvement with organised religion.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
12 Jul 07
I like Craftcatcher's definition (3rd paragraph). It says pretty near all that needs to be said. Pywacket makes a good point about religions being moulded and modified to support one way of life to the detriment of others. I think I didn't mention it because I was feeling magnanimous toward 'religion' and looking for valid reasons for its existence. It is, of course, that aspect that causes some spiritual people to be 'damned to Hell' by others (as if they had any say in the matter!) Sudipta writes a very thought-provoking and telling paragraph. The more I read it, the more I like it. Vmks31 makes an interesting point. It is worth remembering that Christianity is only one religion among many and is often presented today with some very odd and un-Christlike aspects. Jesus addressed himself almost solely to the Jews: it was his followers who initiated the spread of Christianity to the gentiles. The life and teachings of Jesus, the man, are possibly better known by non-Christians than, for example, the life and teachings of Gautama are known by Christians.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
13 Jul 07
Perspectives, to include all the whys and wherefores of religion would, perhaps, require a book (or two) that very few would read. I included only my somewhat basic thoughts on why religion happened in the first place because it seemed right to do so. I agree that people need to understand that it is possible and acceptable to break away from the tribal, social image they have of themselves. I think we need to discuss further, you and I (when we meet again on a branch under a full moon), just how you propose dealing with 'tribal thinking' as it limits an individual's ability to find their own resonance. I believe that a kind of 'tribal thinking' is innate and a very necessary part of our being. To deny it would be something like cutting off our left arm because we mainly use the right (no ... not a very apposite simile, I know, but the it was one that sprang first to mind). I suspect that you do understand and agree with me (and that your clients do get sound advice) but reading what you wrote gave me an uneasy feeling. It was late, though, and your mind was, perhaps tired. That I understand completely. What I was thinking was that 'everyone has a right and a duty to themselves to find and honour their individual potential' but, at the same time, 'no man is an island'. In other words, 'self' is at one and the same time unique and vital and also of absolutely no relevance whatever. It is the successful understanding and balancing of those two concepts which leads us to what Buddhists call Nirvana; in Christian terms, being part of the Kingdom of God upon Earth.
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• Canada
13 Jul 07
My goodness Owlwings...we haven't been in touch for awhile...but you sure made up for it with your initial response...and the two postings afterwards. Talk about an interesting discussion! Thanks so much for contributing with your usual insight...and of course owl wisdom. I have had a busy couple of days with my free lance writing assignments and find Mylot a wonderful wonderful respite. This evening I find myself with eyes glued to the screen...reading the profoundly fascinating responses from fellow members. These types of discussons always nourish my soul..and even though I wish we could be sitting around chatting in person...the essence and energy within this sharing circle is a gift...on-line or otherwise. Your observations about why religions were created and what purpose they serve presents the psycho-social aspects and add another perspective. The 'tribal' element in the developoment of consciousness continues to outwork in our society today. However the limiting confinement of tribal thinking can prevent others from breaking free and standing in the resonance of their own power...as other members have stated. My work as a group leader and life coach has consistently revealed to me that it is unnnecessary to allow the actions of others to control our thoughts when we have the capacity to porcess our world and the people in it as we choose. In my view 'awakened' persons (whether religious or spiritual) know deep within their own beings that they are much more than a body...that they are spiritual/energetic beings going through human experiences. They also have the ability to contemplate 'Self' in relation to the totality of what call the 'universe.' I could add more...but it is getting late and I hope to respond to all respondents before signing off. In closing Owlwings...just know I am delighted that you 'flew' by...and for all the yes, wisdom you and your owl added to the topic. We will be in touch...flying high with our own wings! So long for now.
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• United States
12 Jul 07
You are right, this is a complicated subject. I agree with a lot of what people have said here. To me, being religious is the practice of worshiping and belonging to a group with people who have like-minded beliefs. Of course, belonging to a crowd can change behavior and attitudes and sometimes there is a mob mentality involved. Being spiritual is taking beliefs into ones heart and mostly following one's own path to enlightenment instead of a group. It can also include worshiping in one's own way.
• Canada
13 Jul 07
The responses to this topic are certainly diverse...but in many ways the same. I find that very interesting. I appreciate your comments, especially the idea that 'being spiritual is taking beliefs into ones heart and mostly following one's onn path to enlightenment and worshipping in one's own way.' That is a concise but accurate percpetion of the two dynamics. Your viewpoint builds on the idea that eventually we have to develop discernment and be able to apply what we learn. In the light of what you have said..it would be a much kinder, gentler world if the extremists within religious dogma could accept that their way is not the only way and accept that people can find a pathway to enlightenment...with or without group mandates. It takes up back to the gift of free will and the right to choose. Many forget...we have a right to choose whether they agree or not.
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
12 Jul 07
Funny how the world tries to text speak its way into oblivion and then we begin to talk about the varies words used to describe our human conditions. True that we each have a perspective and come at things from that place. What words we use can indeed define us and begin or end relationships. Sure will be neat in the end to see where each of end up and think about all the choices we have made. That will be the time to understand what all this is for that we are going through. My contribution is all the thing done in the name of religion. Not always good ones.
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• Canada
13 Jul 07
Hi again Willowlady, thanks for dropping by and adding what you think to the topic. Your line about 'seeing where each of us end up and review the choices we have made' is quite a thing to consider alright. That is the strange and wonderful aspect about life, the choices we make, the rightness of our convictions. So many are convinced that they 'know' they are right. They 'know' they are the anointed ones...they 'know' that God told them to kill, condemn, plunder. Like you I'd love to be sitting somewhere and watching to see if what they believe they 'know' as their truth...actually is. You won't have any arguments from me about what has been done in the name of many religions...no, it was not always good ones. What you have presented in your postings speaks volumes and the message is clearly understood. I appreciate that. Come again...you are welcome here...but you already know that.
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@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
13 Jul 07
Religion and spirituality have a thin connection regarding certain kind of elements, such as; faith, god etc. At the same time both have different roots and different goals! Religion aims to get a systematic processes and rituals in society with certain kind of morals and social responsibilities and asks the followers to obey all such! Religious leaders and people always believed that their religion is the best to follow and it has the cream of humanity! Though it is mostly part of politics of the time and certain eras! Spirituality b ased on inner things and one's own basic need to search for real meaning of existence! There are spiritual masters, Gurus and groups lead by real spiritual person with authenticity. So many time they are misinterpreted and religious leaders or religion itself has oposed such spiritual person or its spreading! Even the person bewcome spiritual after getting and following the religion, but then gone totaly for spiritual existence the same religion people have oposed that spiritual person! Well there are so many facts and figures, but we are just concerned about spirituality now because it has some thing more to give and more freedom as well as various kind of things to explore and share without any supressive processes! It is only demending your own inner realization to follow the path with faith and complete understanding! I think this is enough for the purpose, right?
• Canada
15 Jul 07
I absolutely agree with you on all the points you have presented. Not surprising I guess because you and I seem to have a lot of similiar ideas. I think you speak volumes on the subject with your observations that spirituality has more to give and offers greater freedom. Your presentation on developing our own inner realization to follow the path with faith says it all...on both paridyams. Thank you again healwell for another insightful addition to the topic.
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• Kottayam, India
12 Jul 07
There is chance of mixing up together,so religion has nothing to do with spirituality.They may be mere sign boards.
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• Canada
15 Jul 07
Interesting perspective...but I understand where you are coming from. Thanks for your addition to this ever-expanding discussion.
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• Philippines
3 Aug 07
Religion and spirituality are different.Spirituality is a broader look at all things in the universe without pressumption or prenotion.Religion is a dogamtic system of faiths and beliefs in which u are required to "just believe" or divin punishment will bestow upon you.Spirituality allows us to question with our own eyes and hearts the limitless explanations of the Divine and to explore the endless realms and see for ourselves the true meaning of the universe
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• Canada
3 Aug 07
Greetings...I see you are a fairly new Mylotter. Your Avatar and online name are fascinating to me and I'd be interested in hearing your reasons for choosing it. I am in full agreement with your perspective on the differences in Religion and Spirituality. Your views are very insightful and I am glad you choose to add them to the discussion...and I do hope you will drop by again.
@missak (3311)
• Spain
22 Jul 07
Well, I already explained my idea above. This is just a reward so that you get your alert... And I wanted to say thank you for another wonderful discussion! I am a bit out of inspiration this days... and it is nice to find it from others :)
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@missak (3311)
• Spain
22 Jul 07
I just meant the "mylot alert notifications" we get in our email for each response, but not for comments, sometimes I have missed some comments because of that... I am sorry if my english sounded bad or something...
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• Canada
22 Jul 07
No...nothing to do with your English...just didn't understand the lingo. I am still fairly new here...and when I don't 'get' something I am not bashful about asking for assistence. Also my Mom said the third word after Mom and Dad was 'why?' Doubt I will ever lose that trait...my ever questioning mind...just has to know! From your discussion topics...you also have a big need to know...such is the school of life!LOL
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• Canada
22 Jul 07
Yes you did ...and your comments are appreciated. I do not understand the 'just a reward so I get my alert?' What does that mean? Glad you enjoyed the discussion...all the wonderful participants make it what it is...yourself included! Thanks.
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@DanaMark (807)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I basically agree with your perspective. I have seen some people who claimed to be super-religious who led very ungodly lives. And I've seen people who hardly knew anything about religion, but were very spiritually minded. Religion seems to imply following a certain set of mandates for a denomination or particular church or religious leader. Spirituality to me indicates a relationship closer to what God has envisioned for the world. There are some "religious" people I don't like being around, and there are nonreligious people I am proud to count as my friends. The nonreligious seem to be more spiritual. This does not, of course, apply to all people. But I think for some, church gets in the way of their spirituality.
• Canada
15 Jul 07
Another perceptive perspective from you DanaMark...thank you. I have had many similar experiences within the Religious/Spiritual framework. Your comment about "spirituality indicating a relationship closer to what God envisioned for the world" is a very wise statement. I also agree that some churches in their 'cult-like' mind-numbing control does prevent people from discovering a larger context for their spiritual development. Always enjoy hearing from you...and I appreciate your regular visits to the Perspectives site. I haven't been flying too far from home right now...responding to responses keeps my Owl and I perched in a tree...sharing perspectives. I am enjoying every minute of it though...the comments are very thought-provoking, moving, inspiring, uplifiting...so I'm riding the thermals here..but will swoop around to other sites as time permits. Take care..
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@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
15 Jul 07
There is clearly a difference between religion and spirituality. Religion is an organized system of beliefs practiced by multiple persons. It has rites and tradtions, etc. Spirituality is a state of being, with or without religion. A person can't BE religion. Religion is "practiced". A person can, and is, spiritual. I have known many "religious" people who have very little spirituality about them. They are all about the rites and forms of worship but lack the "breath" [spirit] of worship.
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• Canada
21 Jul 07
Your keen insight comes through...and your comments about 'being' spiritual expresses the true essence of spirituality. It is true...you can 'feel' when a person is a spiritual being by the energy within that radiates outward and touches all those within their field. Religiosity does not have the same resonance. Very well put...again. Thank you.
• United States
22 Jul 07
I definitely believe true spiritualism is above and beyond the bounderies of any sectarian or organized religion. I agree that I've met many "religious" people who have no comprehension of true spiritualism. I believe that the word "spiritualism" is used too freely and without real understanding what it really is. I couldn't possibly put it better than you have, as far as your description of non-religious people as being true "spiritualists." A true spiritual person would reflect the quality of a Divine God, as they would possess real humility, and tolerance and love for all living beings, they would be detached, and equal, they would see the Divine in all living things, and behind everything. I'm totally mystified by some of these "religious" people who are so judgemental, and angry, and narrowminded, with no humility whatsoever, who are judgemental and self-righteous...how can they possibly think for a second that Jesus was like that. Thank you for your very wise and insightful post, you put in words so nicely what I feel so much.
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• Canada
22 Jul 07
Oh my goodness...I keep saying I am signing off...then I check the posts...see another response...and here I am. What you wrote is very eloqent...and a very inspiring reminder of what spirituality is...and is not. I appreciate your positive feedback about the post...it is heartwarming to hear that kind of acceptance...thank you. I will mirror to you what you said to me...and I sincerely mean it. You also, have put in words so nicely what I feel as well. You have ended my Mylotting day on very lovely note...wishing you light blessings as I sign off. Warm regards
• United States
20 Jul 07
Oh, I think there's definitely a difference. It had me confused for a long time as a kid. How could the religious people I saw in church turn around and be so mean outside of church. I concluded it was the church's fault. Now I understand that these people were religious but not spiritual. I still beleive in the power of combined energies united in prayer, and the uplifting effect it can have on people. But, so many are hung up on the rituals alone that I am reluctant to go to a church building. My church is the Earth now. So many religions seem to limit God to a specific set of behaviors that are acceptable. Seems a little arrogant to me! The Spirit of God is so far beyond us that trying to pin it down, as many religions try to do, seems like a waste of time and energy.
• Canada
21 Jul 07
Well...our life path experiences around the church parallel each other egfitz. My world/spiritual views are also similar. I also feel Sacred Ground everywhere I walk...and my connection to all that is comes at the place in others where I celebrate our Oneness. I outgrew needing any church or religious leader to define where that is...because like you I "know within my Know." Thanks for you always interesting views here and other sites...including your own. I know we will keep chatting...we are definitely on the same wave length on a lot of topics.
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• United States
16 Jul 07
I'm going to go ahead and answer your initial question before reading the rest of your introduction. I may have to come back and add more after I read the rest of what you had to say. I just had the answer as soon as I read your first sentence and I gotta type it before I get sidetracked with the other stuff. Make sense? Yes, I absolutely, think there is a difference between Religion and Spirituality. To me Religion means organized religion. It means going to church. It means following the rules of a particular church or religion, such as Catholic (the religion I was taught) Christianity, Judaism, Moslem, whatever. It is something that is taught to you by a group of people who have put their twist on things that they have read and learned from others. Spirituality, in my opinion is something that you "feel". I think it is reached by self motivation. People who are spiritual are self motivated. They are compelled to learn about a particular religion or belief. Most people that I think of as "spiritual" don't subscribe to one particular religion, but come to their beliefs through their own self directed learning. I think they take many of their beliefs from a variety of different religions.
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• Canada
16 Jul 07
Hi miamilady...great to hear from you again. I will check out your site to see if you posted anything about your vacation. Now on to the topic...I think you have conceptualized what many other contributors have added to the discussion. I am so in agreement with your comment that 'spirituality is something you feel.' I refer to my spirituality as 'Source-centered and energy-based.' So you have definitely hit the nail on the head with your comment about 'feeling' it. Everything else you describe seems to be in line with the way others view it too. Of all the disucssions I have posted this one has been the most engaging. Mylotters have participated in truly respectful dialogue and I have found myself going 'hmmmmm' or 'ahhhh' to many of their insightful responses...yours included. I think we all 'know what we know' but hearing other people's 'perspectives' can either augment or expand our existing beliefs...and that is just one of the reaons I am enjoying the intelligent dialogue from you and others within our sharing circle. It is great to have your ideas here...and I look forward to many more chats on your site and mine.