Why men don't talk like woman ?
By sexycoley
@sexycoley (497)
Singapore
10 responses
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
12 Jul 07
Because that's the nature. You can't just change it. Men are those who mind their business, but women don't do that, instead, they like wasting their time on things which are not profitable like "gossiping".
Please don't take it as an abusive word. Thanks and have a nice day.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jul 07
Because men use their eyes more than their mouth, while women are busy in their blah !!blah !!!blah ..........men are busy watching beauty of women and dreaming so when they are dreaming all the time, obviously their mouths are shut.............lol
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@urbandekay (18278)
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13 Jul 07
Both men and women use language in different ways for different purposes. We all play different language games.
Consider this conversation;
Man: I'm going to the garage
Woman: Why?
Man: To get some petrol
Woman: What for?
Man: The car
Woman: When?
Man: Now
Woman: Honestly, you're so hard to talk to
Man: ?*****?/
Now, the man is just using language to make some basic factual communication, the woman is using it to re-enforce the bond between them, she is doing social grooming. Had they both understood this they might have acted differently. The woman might have realised that her grooming is at an inappropriate time because the man is about to take some action. But the man might have responded, saying lets chat when I return.
all the best urban
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
12 Jul 07
I'm not sure why men cannot be as gentle as a woman with their speech. They do not think like us either which doesn't help much in their speech with us. I wish alot more guys could really relate to a woman's speech so we could get along better in relationships.
@mmo2wealth (94)
• Vietnam
12 Jul 07
I think the men who talk like woman is not very good
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@Taskr36 (13963)
• United States
13 Jul 07
It's a little nature and a little nurture. Men's brains are different than women's. The left and right brain don't communicate the same way. In addition to that men and women have different hormones that cause their different behavioral tendencies.
Another part is nurture. People learn language and how to speak from those around them. A woman who spends 90% of her time around men is more likely to talk like those men. A man who spends 90% of his time around women is more likely to speak like those women.
@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
13 Jul 07
Hello there sexycool!
Well I think that it isn’t that men don’t talk like women, it is because we are all different in each way. I have friends men and women who talk like me and some who don’t. I guess it all depends on the personality of the person.
Some men are willing to show their emotions as some women do, but then again there are some women who show no emotion as do some men. That is just a trait of theirs that can not easily be changed. It doesn’t have to do with being a man or a woman it simply has to do with personality.
@charlesggeorge (333)
• India
13 Jul 07
hey!!!! who told u men don't like women to talk? all men want to talk with a girl..but some will exoress,but some will not ......some does not like...it will there nature.so...actually ilke to talk with a women very much..hahahaha