on losing something valuable....

when you said ponder moment, you really meant it... i had to sit back for a while and stare at the computer and _ponder_ on your quetion. so after a while, i've decided that i'd rather be happy for a while and lose it than just be okay for life. i think that the degree of happiness of a person is somewhat dependent on the unhappy state that he/she has experienced. if not for some unhappiness, there won't be happiness, right? and about losing something valuable, well, what goes around comes around...