deteriorating relation between two married brothers

India
July 12, 2007 4:05am CST
I have two brothers who are living together in my native place in our ancestral house. I am residing out along with my family at the place of my duty. One of my brothers got married about nine years ago while the youngest brother married six years ago. Both the brides are housewives. Presently, these two girls are quarreling with each other over paltry matters and my brothers are taking the side of their respective wives. For this, peace in the family is gone. I want suggestions from my dear readers how I can manage both of them and be able to restore previous family relations. Both of my brothers are dear to me and if they are separated, I will have problems during my visits to the native place.
2 responses
• India
24 Aug 07
Advice your brothers not to lose their cool and they should be very close to each other. Let them not heed to the petty quarrels what their wives prompt them. They complain for a few times and when there is no response from the male side they will just start to mend their ways and keep their relations and themselves in a good way. This will be taken care only by time and patience. The brothers should never fight. Only then you can gain confidence.
@Lucille7 (509)
• South Africa
12 Jul 07
From my experience with family quarrels, its best to just keep out of it and move on... gosh they will have to grow up and agree to disagree. But nobody can force them to see it this way... Good Luck Brother...