how can i get touch with my mother...
By ChaiDy
@ChaiDy (27)
Philippines
July 12, 2007 9:32am CST
Its like this my mom is in other country and she left me when im still 4 years old. My grandmother take care of me and my 2 brothers since shes gone. I never feel the love of my mom because she is far from us. and i dont even know how. But sometimes i use to question myself that how can i get touch with my mother if she herself dont even try to communicate when we need her..
3 responses
@jeanne94668 (478)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
it is but natural for you to feel that way. that you want to communicate with your mother. it's human nature, you want to belong to your mother. if you know where she is you can try and locate her. there are many ways to locate her. especially now, that there's internet, it would be easier to locate people now. i wish you luck in locating your mother.
@reeyamei (26)
• Philippines
12 Jul 07
there is nothing wrong if you feel that you need to communicate with your mother. she is after all your mother.
Even if she did not try to communicate with you for a long time, I think it would help you if you try to start the communication.
By trying to get in touch with her, you will be able to get the answers that you need.
Mothers will never forget their children... even if you mom does not make an effort to communicate with you, i am sure that she thinks of you often..
maybe she is also hesitant to try to get in touch with you because she does not know how you will react.
@ChaiDy (27)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
hmmm.. thank you reeyamei for the comments.but if my mom wants to communicate with me. maybe she wont wait for 21years to communicate with me. sometimes i do miss her. and like a mother used to do like caring sharing secrets and problems to her a mother and daughter talk. i cant share with my father because im not close with him. he get mad at me all the time because i use to go out late at night with my friends. and i dont understand my father. I accept it that i have some faults but reeyamei is it normal that even if i am already 21 years old then my father still gives me punishment. my father use to spank, punching and he even drag me out to the house. and my mother dont even know about it. my bruses my scars. what should i do?
@tuffy999 (794)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
did you ever try to ask your grandmother why your mother left. being a mother myself i cannot understand how she just turned her on you and your brothers. no matter what her reasons i still believe the least she can do is to check on you kids. i really admire you thou, inspite of the situation you still have the urge to get in touch with her. that's very admirable of you. may you find the answers. god bless
