FRIENDS...are they really your true friends?
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
July 12, 2007 9:34pm CST
they are lot of people that surrounds you that you call FRIENDS. but only few that are true to you. some are only there for you when you're alright and things are going A-okay. some are only there for you when they need your helping hand or just using you for their own good and not because they are your friends. there are only few who are really true to you and would stay with you whatever happens to you even you committed the biggest mistake in your life. these people are the only ones who will stick to your side even if the rest of the world is mocking you. that is because they are the only person who are true and sincere since the time you became friends. this kind of person is one in a million in this world. they are really hard to find. you'll only be aware who your truly friends are when you're in trouble. you sometimes noticed that some of them can't be reached because they are busy with some personal stuffs. but they don't even realized that even a simple call or text telling you if you're okay or not would help you a lot to feel a little better. so, know your friends well before trusting your life to them coz maybe in the end, you'll be disappointed and will regret for having friends like them.
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@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
13 Jul 07
It's good to see you back here posting and by the sounds of things you might have been through or are going through a rough time! Well, i hope you do have a friend that will stick by you when the times are hard? Take care Clarah_cille.
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
yeah, i missed posting some good discussions here and to comment some of our friends' discussions. you're right that i'm in a rough time right now. but i'll be strong to cope up the situation. i know you're here guys to read the stuffs that i will post and will comment about it. it would be of great help for me to weight things over.
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@Robyn28 (384)
• Canada
13 Jul 07
That's so true. I know who my real friends are their the ones who don't talk behind your back who u can trust I've found a few. I know alot of of people ,but them being true friends I don't trust them. I trust my bf ,but he's not who my true friend is I have a few by the hand full. I haven't known my bf long enough to consider if he's a true friend uhm he's alot to m we've only been together 7 months. It's still new it takes a while to know someone,from what I know I can trust him he doesn't back stab so then he's peer
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
yeah, you have to know your bf well before considering him to be a true one coz sometimes bf can't be trusted, but not all anyway. i trust my bf so much, i share a lot of stuffs to him but sometimes i preserved some stuffs to myself. it's really better to know who your true friends are before trusting them too much. im glad you have few friends that are so true to you. (",)
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
You're right...there are lots of people at work or the neighborhood who we call as friends, but in the final analysis, they are just passing acquaintances who do not really stand by you when the going gets rough...I have had bad times, and real friends emerge as they stand by you whatever happens...there are lots of people who we interact with, but very few are considered as true and real friends...
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@joanne1990 (12)
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3 Mar 08
the most important thing in a true firned/friends is that they re always honest and trusting.... yeah although you may have fights then and again but its important to remeber that if there your true friend they will frgive you... its all bout trusting eachother with secetes and to be open.. a true friend wont care what you look like or the way you dress but the way to act towars them.... you will really know who yr real friends are in time of need for example when u need a shoulder to cry on or advice and there always there for u... there are many people who can only be trusted in this world....
