what would you chose ? family or friends ??

Friends come and go, bu family will always be your family, so I choose family. I've been screwed over too many times from people that I thought were my friends, so it's hard for me to have friends. My relationship with my family is getting better now too. Unfortunately it took me a trip to the ER to get things patched up with my family, but it worked. It woke me up and made me realize my true feelings. I told them my true feelings and found out that a big part of the problem was ME!!! It was how I saw things, interpreted them, etc. So, it was all in my head. I'll tell ya one thing, I can't believe that it took me the ER visit to getmy act together with a lot of things, including my health.

It takes time to be in a relationship with family or friends. In your case your family has been the one closest to you. For mine, my friends are equally important and i would dare to say i treated them the same as my family members.

for me family of course...friends might gone, some will stay but family is always there, no matter how bad we are...still they are our family.