What should I do?

Sorry to hear about that.....You know that you can sit there and talk to us, you have friends here...

I too become very bored at times. That is the main reason I come to mylot:P I also enjoy to sit and watch a good movie. Or how about throwing on a skirt, if you have no clean pants, and going to the bar, or out on the town. You look pretty, I bet you could find a new man in no time.

What did you do before the boyfriend? Get out and go to a park go to a museum Go to a hospital and do some volunteer work Oh before you do go wash your pants.

You could find games to play online or find other ways to make money online (point & survey sites). You could go lay outside and read a book. You could clean the house *hehe*

hello wooitsmolly. You do what you love most. Work or spend time with your family. I'm sorry about that boyfriend of yours- bad boyfriend. Hugs to you.

I have these same feelings like you. I have no job, no money, and friends. When the last guy ask me out, I found out he had been married with three children and later filed for a divorce. I was dumped by him because I was laid off on my last job. What I do for free time is just use what I have left, and maybe good things will soon come.

Your boyfriend left you, when did he leave you? Sorry to hear you are so down, hopefully some of us here can cheer you up. Chin up, there is always a brighter day around the corner!

Geez - Made it to the 11th page of responses, & - well, he does have to earn his money to survive, because it's uusally: No money No honey so he's got to work to earn his money. I also love the way that the MyLot guidelines mention to read all the responses first, but very few did just that. If someone happens to stumble upon my reply, they'll probably be wondering what the heck I was thinking when posting this, but once they get to this paragraph, ... I'd LOVE to see the looks on their faces.

Hold on Molly, hold on just one minute. First get you some clean pants, or shorts, or something. Your are 21 I do believe, you have nothing to be bored about. Look all around you there has to be something you can do. Even if you do not the money there is plenty of thing for you to do for free. Go bird watching, go on a picnic by yourself(awesome way to meet someone), or go to the mail even if you do not have any money(awesome way to meet someone).

Of course you have friends here, you are always welcome to give me a pat on the head, (its amazing how theraputic that is), and of course I'll always give you a big lick if I meet you. Woof!! Woof!!

Are you serious? Your boyfriend just left you and your bored? You have no clean pants and no friends so your bored? Hmmmmm. Tell us the truth woo, what is eally going on?

You're single and bored, no clean pants? It's a Saturday night, you are young, single and stunning, sling on a dress or a skirt and get out there and party sweetheart - I wish I could still do that! xxx

sorry to hear that, I guess you just have to pray hard and w8 for the right man to come along and besides you have us,always willing to give you helping hand:)have a nice day!!

i have literally jus broken up with my girlfriend. and currently i am staying at my dads house and i have no1 here tht i no. i have been on mylot now for 5 hours seeing if ne1 else is feeling the same. and its now 2am here in england. i think that u need to go out for a drink go meet someone to chat to. what im going to do tomorow is join a gym so i can hopefully meet people. i am also tomorow night going to go out for a drink to see if i can meet people. no matter what age they are. jus to talk. mayb get friendly with them. i hop this helps. ps. dnt get completely wasted. just have a few confidence builders. i recommend a few double vodka redbulls. sit at the bar and start a conversation. see if ther regulars. maybe meet up with them again. whether there male/female/single/married etc. just be friendly

boyfriend.. thats in ur case.. the same thing.. but girlfriend in my case.. what do u suggest me.. then.. ha ha.. life is to forget something.. and to move ahead..

Get on a plane and just go somewhere! all the best urban

It's best that you found out what kind of a man he is, while he was only your boyfriend. It's alot better then you being married. I know it still hurts, however time will heal all wounds. So, this was Gods way of opening your eyes. All things that are done in the dark, will always come to light! ..... Read a good book, that always works for me. If not,then go for a long walk. Whatever you do, don't look back, don't ever give him that power over you. You're a good looking woman who will not have a problem finding someone else, just take it slow & when you're ready get right back out on the market .... LOL:-)

Sorry to hear about your loss. Actually it is his loss. You are young, pretty and clever. You would get plenty of good guys. You have to have patience to get good things. See, you made this guy your boyfriend in a hurry and now you know that he was not worth it. Start with things that are necessary: clean your pants, do some exercise/ Yoga and do not indulge in self pity. Wait for some time to get a good boyfriend. I bet you would get a good boyfriend but you have to identify him and do not be in a hurry. All the best and tell me when you get a good boyfriend.

oh i know how you feel. my hubby works most nights plus his day jobs. im often alone and dont have any friends either. i dont drink so bars are a no-no. why dont you write a really hot book for mills and boon or any such publisher. make it really soppy. if you can write here, you can do it. i have started with one as well.

Cheer up. You have a lot of friends like me in Mylot here and there should be no reason for you to get bored. Come and discuss with us all. If your boy friend has left you, ignore him and start a fresh life for you with a better one. When God closes a door, it means there is a better door waiting for us somewhere to be opened by Him. Cheer up.