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United States
July 14, 2007 8:00pm CST
How can I get my son to talk to me with respect without him talking back to me? He is 11 years old and he thinks he knows everything. And how can I get him to keep his hands to himself? He likes to hit his younger brother and sister. What should I do? He is not a bad kid he just has his momments.
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@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Well you are the parent , but if it was my child they would be spending a very lond amd lonley summer with no friends, no t.v no internet, no nothing but sitting in there room untill they could speak to me with respect. Maby a change of friends? I know that kids will try to get away with whatever they can but only if you allow it.
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• United States
19 Jul 07
Yeah but what do you do with kids that just dont care? I feel like sometimes they dont care and can sit in that room, destroying whatever is in there. Honestly some kids need to get beat.
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• United States
20 Jul 07
Ok so i can come over and beat them for you! hehehehe no sir
• United States
20 Jul 07
Yea, but what will that do. Nothing especailly if you have a hard headed child. So kids need tough love.
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• United States
15 Jul 07
We've been going thru the same thing with our 12 year old daughter. She has a comment for everything, and the last few months she seems to push or hit at her brother more. Everyone "annoys" her, and when I have tried to get her to do something I get "I'm tired of you Yakking at me". I told her the other day I didn't want to hear the word "yakking" out of her mouth again. Hopefully this is just a stage, but it has lasted about a year now. So good luck!
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• United States
19 Jul 07
Aww yeah that is hard. My mom use to tell me, when i have kids she hopes they give me back the same crap! And that use to make me think. then i started to be better in hopes that my kids dont give me a hard time! But i am sure she wont understand quite yet! Usually i have to tell my nephews to bring it in and to think how i feel! I hate having to say stuff more than once to them!
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