My Way of Being a Father
By MacPlowman
@MacPlowman (6)
China
July 14, 2007 9:57pm CST
Being a father means pleasure and responsiblity as well. As a father of a 6-month-boy,I'd like to keep a record of how to bring up my son so that I can share with you my theory and practice in this regard. It is not easy to be a qualified father and I know what is facing me in the later time, but i am sure i will not fail for i am with you, and your comments and response can surely do me g great favor of being a excellent father. Thank you!
1 response
@fuzzEbluebathrobe (378)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Dude! you have a 6 month old... you have no time to keep a log and think about how your parenting measures up in theory. While you are doing that where is his mother? ... running herself ragged trying to run a house and maybe a job. The only theory you need is that you are both in it together and you need to share all responsibilities of running your household so you both have time for the fun stuff with your son.
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@MacPlowman (6)
• China
15 Jul 07
I cannot agree more and I do think that you are not noly a qualified father but also an excellent husband. To be honest, i am not ready to be a father when my son came to this world at the beginning of this year. I don't know what i can and should do for the baby, for it seems that I myself am still a child. Without doubt, I will have to shoulder the task of earning bread back home for my kid and his mother, but i know it is more important to know how to bring the a baby into a man. That is why I am here to exchange ideas with all the friends here. Thanks.
@fuzzEbluebathrobe (378)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Well thanks but I am a women and single. However before I had the job I have know I spent some time caring for children whose parents had fallen down on the job.
Helping young people find their gifts and personal strength when they have seen poor examples of adult behavior and parenting at home is heartbreaking. Make sure your child never needs nurturing from professionals and who are really kind strangers to survive childhood.
I am glad you take parenting so seriously ...you can not believe how many people do not.
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@MacPlowman (6)
• China
16 Jul 07
Wow, I am sorry to have mistaken you as a married man with children. Thank you very much for letting me know that plenty of parents are too busy to take care of their children and now I know how forturnate I am in this regard. Bringing up a child is not an easy task for anyone to acomplish. What we need in this aspect is responsibility. A famous saying goes that the hands that rock the cradle rock the world. So you konw how important it is for the parents to take bravely the responsiblility of being the first qualified teachers for their kids. I'd like to share with you what I have read and what I have done in trainning my son if you are interested in it, though you are still single. Thanks!
