Can you be single whole life???

India
July 15, 2007 6:08am CST
Is it possible to be single whole life? Dining alone, watching movies alone, spending holidays alone, doing all things alone? Can you imagine about such life? How important is somebody's company in your life?
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@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
is there anyone living here on earth who wants to be single for life? he/she can be single for life, but for sure at least she/he has a friends.. there is a saying that no man is an island.. no one wants to be alone.. its a choice if someones wants to be real strange to everyone. it would be sad.. boring and feeling of not loved.. i wish no one wants to be alone and leave alone here..
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• India
15 Jul 07
Yes, you are right nobody can live alone. Thanks for responding!
• China
15 Jul 07
I think it depends on people's characters.I think there must be some people who want to be singles all their life.she/he may be not outgoings guy,she/he may be feel easy or happy with single life .one of my friends is just this kind of person who like staying at home rather than going out with her friends.she said she likes this kind of feelings,she had her own place to enjoy her life,such as reading or watching TV only by herself .
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• India
15 Jul 07
I too like being at home, but I can't be alone. Thanks for responding!
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
im an only child.. for all this years, ive been lonely for i have nobody to talk to if im home, and having someone who will be there for you like a boyfriend makes a difference.. i cant take it if ill be single forever..
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• India
17 Jul 07
Thanks for responding!
@GardenGerty (160721)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Even single people have friends. Not to be married does not necessarily mean to be alone. I could probably do it, if that was what God called me to do.
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• India
17 Jul 07
Thanks for responding!
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Just because someone is single doesnt mean they are living a life of solitude by any means....I know ppl who are single but are more busy and entertained than many ppl in relationships that i know....Theres always opportunity to interact with others and have social settings..you dont have to be in a relationship to have that...
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• India
15 Jul 07
Yeh, you are right, its not neccessary to be in a relationship. But still being alone is difficult unless the single person is really busy in work & doesn't have time to think about relationships. Thanks for responding!
@2babita (1072)
• India
15 Jul 07
Sorry,I dont think anything is so important.I want to stay alone rather insulted or getting embrassed by other. I think people can do every thing if they want to do.
• India
17 Jul 07
Thanks for responding!
@misshoney (973)
• Philippines
15 Jul 07
hello indiavani :-). single for life?? well there is such a thing as single blessedness so people who live alone is a reality. and well single people often faced lots of pressure from society because the norm make single people feel like they are losers or something. it is wonderful to find a partner for life but i don't think it fair to say that being single is a life doomed to miserty and unhappiness. married life is not for everybody but it doesn't mean that single people can't find fulfillment. there are lots of joys single people enjoy.
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• India
15 Jul 07
I agree with you too that single people also find joys & enjoy life. But I think somewhere they feel they are single although they can live life happily, there would be something missing. Thanks for responding!
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Aug 07
I am not a saint or Sadhu. Nor have I committed any sin to remain as single? I am already married and even now I do not want to be single I like someone to share my thoughts, vice versa and that is my wife.
@fredgame (1260)
• China
19 Jul 07
i think it's terrible doing things as a single though i'm not yet married it's terrible as though we don't pray for any misfortune in life it sometimes come unexpected and things get so crucial who is the first person to get you your needs and possibly send the news to your relations? so i see it necessary to get a partner before things go the other way. wish me good luck. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
@shinjiao (1457)
• China
17 Jul 07
ha,my mother and I just talked about this question last night.I think it is possible for me to be single whole life.If my Mr.Right cannot appear in my life so why should I have to choose the second one as my husband? So I would rather to be alone.
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 07
Its hard but not impossible. Personally i dont think i could live such miserable life but i know some people who like being alone.
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@michecu (637)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
Hi! I think it is possible to be single whole life. I have two aunts who are single and they are now more than 50. They are happy anyway because they get to take care of us when we were still kids. Until now, we are still close to them, we treat them like our parents as well. I even think that my parents are lucky to have them help in nurturing us. That's why i don't think, being single is lonely. Well, there are many people close whom you could share your life with. :)
• India
15 Jul 07
mayb yes..but then he wud b a machine..man is a social animal period..company keeps one alive..for me human company comes ahead of everythin..money,fame,looks..everything.!!i wud do nythin for ma friendz.!!
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