Online dating sites-What??

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Hello all. I just wanted to see how other people felt about this. One day I looked at my boyfriend emails. I know I shouldn't have invaded his privacy, but at the time I wanted reassurance that I didn't have anything to worry about. I have some major self esteem issues. Anyway, I found some emails to a woman in which he talked about hoping one day they could be more than friends...I also found out that he had met her (and her sister) one evening (while we were together), but based on the emails it never went any further. I confronted him about some of the things I saw and he told me that they had met before he had met me and that from the start she said she only wanted to be friends. He said it was just joking between them about becoming more than friends. After I told him what I read (I didn't even tell him I knew they had seen each other), he told her the situation and assured me that he wouldn't continue even talking to her. He told me that she was way out of his league from the time they met (before me). He apoligized for not telling me about her, and I accepted his apology. This was last fall and I don't know how (or if I should) to stop dwelling on this. I have checked his mail recently and have found nothing out of order. One final note: he still has his favorites folders on the side of his screen and still has a dating folder with dating sites (I have said nothing-yet). Any advice on how to get past this or other advice would be greatly appreciated!