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United States
July 15, 2007 4:42pm CST
You look cute after a few beers... Well I like this guy, and were friends and all but I like him more than a friend. We flirt and just laugh and stuff, but it seems when he's drunk he wants to get in my pants. I mean it doesnt bother me because I will do what I want and say No and stuff, but the other night he walked me to my car, and we talked and "stuff" and then at the end we kissed. And I dont know, I think all that stuff only happened because he was drunk, and it's like he doesnt want to talk to me or something. I mean yeah were friends but I called him yesterday and he ignored my call and then my friend called him later on that night and I happened to talk to him and he was all weird. I dont know maybe it's me but... So then on my way home I called him, but I only let the phone ring twice incase he was sleeping and he never called me back. I want to hang out with him this Saturday, but I'm not sure what to do. Should I just blow it off about what happened, and act like it never did. I mean do you think i'm being too clingy or something.... I guess he just thinks i'm prettier, when he's drunk.. Should I say something to him.. HELPPPP! PLEASEE!!!!!!!!
1 response
wooitsmolly
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
15 Jul 07
He might just be nervous around you when he isn't drinking. I know I have been like that with guys in the past. Once I have a few drinks in me I loosen up and can flirt and don't feel nervous around them. When I am sober I get nervous and might even ignore them because I am scared to talk to them. I don't know what kind of guy he is, but he might just be shy like that. I doubt it has anything to do with him thinking you are "prettier when he's drunk." If I were you, I would probably wait until he was drinking to talk to him about it (probably not the best idea lol) but at least he might be more honest? Ha.. I dunno. Good luck, though. Don't worry about it too much.
chel2thasea07
@chel2thasea07 (69)
• United States
15 Jul 07
Thanks. Yeah, I dont know. He's not very shy though. I mean yeah I want to hang out with him on Saturday and drink, so maybe later on when were both drunk, I can actually talk to him about it. lol Sounds lame but I not as shy when I'm drunk. I mean I am really shy, but not with him. It's weird. We flirt all the time, kind of like a joking around, but sometimes it's like a serious kind of one. I'm not sure. We'll see how it goes through the week. Thank you for the response though..