Does the truly friendship exist between male and female?

China
July 15, 2007 9:35pm CST
Yesterday one of my female friends asked me a question:"Will you allow your girlfriend to meet another guy though he is her friend?" If they are friends,I think my answer maybe "yes".But do you think the real friendship will exist between male and female?How can you tell what the other guy is thinking about your girlfriend?Does he love her? I have many female friends,some of which is my real friends and I will not allow anything happen between us.But some are friend I have feeling of.If possible I want to develop the relationship to another step. So,what do you think?Can you tell the difference between what are truly and untruly friendship?
4 responses
jmicy1029
@jmicy1029 (197)
• China
17 Jul 07
It really does,but you have to keep distance.
jmicy1029
@jmicy1029 (197)
• China
21 Jul 07
chinese guys
JeffMoney
@JeffMoney (71)
• China
17 Jul 07
I agree with you.???????!(it is in chinese,i can't translate it into english,it may mean that friendship must keep distance)
cherryalways
@cherryalways (70)
• China
17 Jul 07
I think it does exist. Only this kind of friendship is more or less different from the friendships between man and man or woman and women. like something between friendship and love, i'd like to say. i think it usually begins with that one loves another one but the later just keeps it within the friendd zone, or ends that way.
JeffMoney
@JeffMoney (71)
• China
17 Jul 07
I agree with in some sense.
usmcsgtwife
@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
16 Jul 07
Well I used to think so, I have been friends with this one guy since we were 4, so like 28 years.. Well I went home to my parents house for Christmas cause my husband was in Iraq and I met up with my friend a few times. After I got to my home my friend called me and said he wanted to be "more then friends" even thou I am married
JeffMoney
@JeffMoney (71)
• China
16 Jul 07
There may be something in the friendship between male and female.
laurika
@laurika (4532)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I really think so.I have friend who is male and we understand each other very good for almost 3 years.He is married and i am engaged , so each of us has our won private life, what we accept.Also I would never thing we would be lovers.I just have a lot of fun with me and also it is interesting to hear opinions on stuff from man like all the time from woman.And lost the love is bad , but losing the good friend is even worst.