"Ex-boyfriend" owes me money, what should I do to make him pay?

LOL that was really dumb. Learn from your mistake and do not do it again. You arent going to see that money again so you might as well forget about it.

i hope you will not be offended but its stupid of you to lend your hard earned money to somebody you have not met personally and thousand of miles away. ok you say that he was your ex-boyfriend, and you were only together online and you lent some money after you broke off, it think its very very reckless of you. anyway in my opinion say good bye to your 600dlrs you will just be wasting your time and any additional expenses if you report him to the authorities. lesson learned its better to say no than being sorry.

WEll I dont know about this for sure but I BELIEVE thta you are pretty much f*cked for ever getting that money back....You hve no real way to prove that he owes you that money, even if you can prove you gave it to him and even if you can prove he said he'd return it I dont think you can prove that he never did ya know...My question is though, what would possess you to give him that much money in the first place seeing how you REALLY didnt know this guy (the whole yr, I'm sorry to say, could have been a sham..you REALLY DONT KNOW this guy ya know)...and have you asked him about it (paying you back I mean)?

hey better forget it, if you ever have that kind of money to lend someone you can easily earn it. its pasrt of the price u pay for the relationship, hey i am from nigeria. if you cont mind can we be friends.

Well, I guess you could say this is one of those things you "chalk up to experience"...You have NO way to recoup your losses here, unless you had him sign a written agreement that he would pay you back. Oral agreements would be hardpressed to hold up, even in the best of Courts, because it would be considered, "she said/he said"...when was the last time you spoke with him...have you asked him to pay you back yet? These are both things you have to think about..and act upon if you haven't yet..but I would surmise that you are pretty much out of luck..I'm a bit confused why the need to include that he was "American" and you are "Filipino" ? It wouldn't matter if he was Tahitian and you were from Mongolia..trying to collect a debt without an agreement is like pulling a mule through hardened cement!! Don't beat yourself up too much over it..it's water under the bridge. Consider it money well spent if you never, ever do something like this again...remember, you're not the first to do something like this..and you won't be the last!! Good luck, keep your chin up, and find a nice boyfriend locally who loves you for you, not your money!!

I don't know how you would handle that situation since it is overseas. But i know here in the US, when somebody owes you money, you can take them to court. If you had any copies of the email when he asked for the money. If you wrote a check or wired it, if you kept the receipt you could use that. But I really don't know what you would do in your situation, if it is the same or not.

I wouldn't bother that much about the money anymore, I suggest you forget about it and not worry yourself on when he's gonna repay you. If your "ex" do have conscience, then he'd return it to you no matter how long time permits him to. $600 may be a lot of money, but you should assume already that he's gone and so is your money..

I don't think there is anything you can do to get the money back. How did you transfer the money? Through the mail or through paypal? If you did it through paypal, was it a credit card charge? If it was, I suppose you could check with your credit card and/or paypal to see if they can help you at all. But I really don't expect that they can.

hi fren mmm mybe all you have to do is try to talk to him and gve hm a powerful word that make him realized to pay you as he barrowed the money....Godbless...