What kind of women are men looking for?

Speaking as a woman who got her man, I can tell you that men are just big babies inside. They are still looking for someone to take care of them. I did not realize this until I had a baby and suddenly saw the striking similarity between my spouse's behavior and our two year old. Toddlers sulk and throw tantrums! And, so do men. Little kids expect to be waited upon and pampered. And, so do guys. Their moms most likely did the same for them and they will expect it from every woman in their lives. And, if you let them, they'll run your life. Does that sound bitter? It's not! Just realistic. Some guys are better than others. But at heart, they're all selfish and only thinking of themselves.

When we are looking for a woman for a relationship, we want to feel like you 'get' us. We want you to need us, but not too much. We want you to call us on our bulls**t, but still be sweet about it. We want to feel safe with you, as much as you want to feel safe with us. We want the same things you do, we're just not as good at articulating it.

Well I could finally say, I feel happy in the relationship I'm in. Although rocky at times, I still love my babykat. On the other hand, if I was still looking. I would look for someone that will strive for the best at all times. A person that never stresses on the petty things, but keeps their head up and moves on. A soulmate that will always give me and my children the best. Primarily that will treat my children with respect. I guess my babykat is alot of what I would still look for, but sometimes he does fall of the track. Then I come along and help him get back on it. lol.