Rebellious son

I'm a grandfather. I don't have much to go on here, but can only suggest adjusting your relationship. Boys that age are assertive and sullen, sometimes belligerent. Try being extra attentive and sympathetic. Ask as a friend and advisor what he's bugged about and acknowledge the significance to him. Don't laugh off his concerns. Share painful growing up problems you've had and how you did and should have handled them. Explain your side, also; that you want him to feel comfortable to communicate and cooperate as a winning team. Contact me anytime, Tim Hollis

Have you asked him why he wanted to run away? I think it's some kind of influence from what he sees, hears or (if he's doing it a lot) then maybe it's the way you react whenever he says those things. I think going to the doctor is too drastic. Children do things to gain 'attention' from us. We must let them know who's boss. Try analyzing your child. Try figuring out his moods. Experiment on what works and what doesn't. Try ignoring him when he utters those words. Good luck to your kid. Be extra patient though, there are phases in a child's life. Maybe you were like that when you were young. Try asking your parents. *LOL* To keep things lighter, here are quotes from children: "Everyone has feelings, except for snakes and principals." - Donna Maria G, age 9 "Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and the world laughs at you." - Rob P, age 8 "If life gives you nothing but lemons, make up a better shopping list for it." - Steven B, age 8 "Moses came down with the Ten Amendments, which were God's Bill of Wrongs." - Susie F., age 7 "Doctors automatically know what's wrong with you. They have a sick sense." - Beau M., age 10 "My dog had worms. I think he was going fishing." - Emma B., age 4 =)

My best friend is going through the exact same thing with my Godson. He's 7 and acts out pretty bad. I'll suggest to you the same thing I suggested to her, call the pediatritian and have him screened to make sure it's not anything health related (some health conditions can change or effect moods and behaviors) and if it's not that then ask for a referral to a pediatric councler or therapist. I know it sounds kinda drastic but best to take a few precautions and have your son back to his happy little self.