Have you had a ONE-WAY love affair?
By maean_19
@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
July 17, 2007 12:44am CST
Have you been in a relationship where you does not love the other person or he or she is the only one loving you?
Have you had a relationship because of pity?
Do you agree on what other say on, " it's better to choose the one who loves you than choosing the one you love who does not love you back."?Believing that love can be developed.
Share me your perception.
4 responses
@stephmarie2 (31)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
My mom married my dad with no love. Its only my dad whose loving my mom yet until now they are still together. For 24 years, my mom has finally develop that love to my dad. And so I strongly agree that love can be developed in its natural way,and that there is no such thing as love at first sight. Based on my observation in my environment, it's love that was developed last long rather than the one whom others call "love at first sight"
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
Amazing love story....I think, that is so true. Love can be developed and it will be sweeter. I congratulate your father having patience and was able to wait for the time that your mother's love has developed.
But I guess, it is different when the girl loved the guy first and the guy does not love the girl because as far as my observation, girl is easier to be pleased and impressed than guys does.
@nutea_anin (281)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 07
i had this experience,a relationship because of pity. It was when i was in senior high school. He told me that he just broke up with his girlf.actually i really didn't understand why he's telling me and only to me. one day he said that he loves me.and i didn't know why i accept him to be my boyf.it was only 4 months and i realized that i accept him because of pity. it's really my mistake!
Yes, i better choose the one who loves me the way i am and i think i already found him.
@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
17 Jul 07
i strongly believe on that..i had been there once when i let things happen even without love..its for my own purpose yes..i had the man because i need him to be my stepping stone, thats all i ever wanted from him but in the long run..i fell inlove much with the same man..because i developed feelings for him through years of being with him..
he had cared so much for me even if he knew my intensions..he didn't change not a bit and that those goodness and care he showed me made me fall inlove with him..its true that love can be develop so its better to be with someone who loves you..
