Which is harder to do?

As for my experience, it's hard to wait for somebody to love you back. It made me feel so insecure and wothless. I was lost but then when I've finally realized that I am not being fair to myself and that I deserve to be happy...I've gathered all the courage I needed to move on with my life.

women are more emotional compared to men. We are able to appreciate simple favor being offered to us by other people. Surely it is a wonderful feeling that our affection if reciprocated by the people we love. BUt we know life's imperfection; some things are left unequal. cliche it may be but its true that its better that somebody will love us more that we love them. ITs a very nice feeling. Sounds selfish, but its the way it should be. Why insist ourselves to those who are not able to give back the love that they are getting. anyway, in time, love willsurely flourish especially if the guy remains faithful & selfless.

I agree with you, you cannot force someone to love you and to feel the way you feel towards that person. Because if you try to do that kind of attitude towards the person you love it is just being greedy and selfish. And another thing that is really hard to do is to let go. To let go the person whom you really love because like what I have said you cannot force everything, you cannot force yourself to set away the feelings you have for that person.

You can not teach love to anything. It is a feeling which is spontaneous and comes from within. I would continue loving the person I love without bothering about response.

Yes. I agree with you. Its very hard to make someone love you. Love is something that comes automatically and you cant make that artifically. But you can always make up your mind to love someone who loves you. I should definitely agree with you on this, my friend.

they are the same. its hard to teach the heart to love someone who we dont really love and hard to wait for someone to love us

it is harder to hope for someone you love to love you back. this is beyond our control. it must not be forced. only that person can decide whether to love you back or not. it is easier to teach ourselves to love the people who love us. that is something within our control. you would know what you want. you know how it feels or how being loved makes you feel. it is within your choice or decision who to love, when, how and how much.

I think they are both equally hard.....the turmoil you feel when you love/care for someone and they don't respond is awful...and the guilt you feel when you know someone loves you and you don't feel the same is just as bad....but there has to be a time when you meet up with someone and you both love desire each other....