How can you forgive your parents?

I don't think he'll ever get over this. A child not feeling the love of their parents must be one of the worst feelings in the world. The best thing you could do is be there for him and show him how much YOU love him. I wouldn't even talk to him about the situation unless he brings it up. Then just let him go on about it, but don't add your opinion. You wouldn't want him to start feeling negative towards you. I hope this helps

i think if your dad knows he is loved by you and you stick with him, im sure he will get through this horrible time, your grandmother does not sound like a very nice person!, has she had any contact with you or if your fathers children? I think your dad has had 48 years of this woman letting him down and being horribe to him, i dont really think he should bother, some people should never become parents, just be there for your father let him know you love him, im sure this will reasure him Godd luck, sometimes families!!!!!

see Kcrysea it is very sad to here that..!! But he have to forgive his mother..!if he is a good persone amd not willing to take a revenge...!! afetr all she is his mom...! But in my case I would taken a revenge for that..! A mother who doesn't really loves her own son ...!! How cruel..

sorry to know this. I wonder why his parents do that to him. maybe there is skeleton in the closet. I personally are not too close to my parents. I don't hate them, I just feel distant. But I still worry about them and if I had some money I would send it back home. I'm not a forgiving person so I don't know if it's possible to forgive someone even if it's a parent. But I know that if he doesn't do anything wrong he really has nothing to be worried or sad about.

I'm sorry for your dad to have been treated unkindly by no less than his own mom...that's really a bad example to you, the grandchildren...what if all of a sudden your grandmom fell ill, and your dad and you are the only ones who can take care of her? Maybe your grandmom has not yet seen how important you are to them...anyway, we'll pray that one day, your grandparents will realize their mistake, especially your grandmom...they're not getting any younger, and they need all the help that they could get from family members like you. I know it will take time before your dad can forgive his parents...

The story lived you really tradis and I was concerned about the condition that had been experienced by you

There goes the saying,"There is a skeleton in every cupboard." It is not easy to tell the reason why your grandmother sent your dad to someone elso to look after. There must be some reason why she did this. I suggest that you have a heart-to-heart talk with your grandmother before you get to know the details and make your father feel better.

Hi, As one get older may too old those childish character may come. Those mature character begins to vanish. Those child like quarells may arise. Still on other side 48 years old is too mature to handle a child. I hope your father will take his mom has his child and see this as child quarell and so as to forgive moms childish quarells.

Hi kcrysea... It's kind of sad you know. The same thing happened to me. I was sent away by my parents to study, so I lived with my grandma for around 20 years before she passed away last year. I hardly remembered my childhood with my parents as I have much of my memories with my grandma. I once ever told my mom, I was an abandoned child because my parents never pay attention and cares to me when I was little. Only my grandma did. Thus, my relationship with my grandma was very close compare to my parents. My father was very hard and strict on me. I was told that I was useless and my sisters are better. As time goes by, I tried very hard to convince my parents that I'm not what they think. I'm not going to give up and instead, I fight for my future to prove that what they think was wrong. As I grow, I learned so many things. I realized and understand why my parents sent me away to study. I know they concern and care about my futures. I know I have misjudged my parents and I begin to forgive them. I apologized to my mom for saying such words. You know, my mother gave birth to me and that's non an easy way to do. The pain, suffer for 9 months to carry me in her womb makes me realize how my mother loved me so. She risk her live to gave birth to me and it's a duty for us as child to honor and respect them. Sometimes parents did make mistake. They are still human. But they never will harm their own son for their own good. My father was hard on me to make me a real man. To make me understand that I have to learn to live on my own not depending on others. I have to be able to stand on my own feet. Now, my parents are happy. They are so happy that I've grown mature and most of all... it's not what they expect, but they find what I need to become and what I have become. I love my parents very much for what they did for me. Even it's good or bad. Doesn't matter for me. After all, the most important, I have Jesus with me. He who strengthens me in all things. He is the real Father for me!

i really donno what xacttly to say but i guess that on part of he story,what was the reason that made your grandmother do this.no mother can do it without a severe cause....