Wish List of Spouses

Well, I do not have a spouse...but, I still want to answer! Sorry, haha! All of the answers that everyone is giving is great! It is great to be able to vent and others being able to understand! So, great discussion! LOL :D

1.) Scratch my back without me having to make a trade with him. 2.) Stop telling me the dog is mine when she misbehaves. 3.) Stop telling me the kids are mine when they misbehave. LOL, that's if for me!

Five things I wish my spouse would do more Only five lol. I have a wonderful wife who is great but this is going to be to easy the hardest part will be stopping at five lol 1 Stop nagging it doesnt make me do anything or feel any differently it is just irritating. 2 Let me make my own decisions sometimes without your imput God gave me a brain for a reason too. 3 Trust me more until I give you a reason not to 4 Go out more with me I understand you enjoy relaxing at home but I would like to show off my beautiful wife sometimes. 5 cook something that you dont have to microwave first lol

I don't have a husband yet, but I'll make a list anyway. These are things I think it's pretty unlikely most men would do -- it's more of a "My ideal husband would do this". 1.Play classical music. I just love the idea of having a husband who is able to play the piano, violin, viola, or even harp! And he would serenade me with classical music. It doesn't have to be an original composition. 2.Be willing, or already have had a vasectomy. I don't want to have any kids and I'd rather not have to be concerned with buying protection. A vasectomy would be easier for him to get than for me to get tubal ligation. I think for some men, there is a masculinity issue, but I hope my future husband won't think like that. 3. Shave, wax, use a depilatory or get rid of all hair except for the hair on his scalp, eyebrows & eyelashes in any other way. Body and facial hair are not appealing to me. In fact, it's just about disgusting. Ideally, my husband won't have hairy legs, or chest, etc. 4. Love to, and do almost all of the cooking. I'm not one for cooking, especially raw meat. It isn't so much that I can't cook, but I just hate doing it so much that I don't try (and raw meat literally makes me gag). I would rather live off of pre-prepared foods, and take out than cook. The most I do in terms of cooking is frying an egg. So unless he doesn't mind eating frozen entrees or those easy to prepare Jennie-O turkey burgers, he'd better do the cooking. 5.Just be really understanding & considerate. I just want a husband who will be understanding when I say I feel a certain way or if I want to or don't want to do something.