What's the hardest part of being a sister?

Awww thats not cheesy at all, thats kinda sad to hear that. Did you sisters know that you liked him too? I have a twin sister and even though things like that never happened between us (we have different tastes in men LOL) the hardest part for me is not being there for her when she needs me. She lives in New Zealand and I live in the USA, so its tough when she is going through things I am not there by her side. It's not the same when your on the phone talking as I would prefer to be by her side. That's one of the hardest parts of being so far away from each other. I miss her everyday!

I feel like anything I do is a reflection on me to my sister. I would never want to do anything that she would be dissappointed in.

unlike you, i have two younger brothers. i have no sisters so i have no "love concerns" like u, hehe! the hardest part for me as a sister to 2 brothers is disciplining them. i have to constantly watch over them. basically being a "second mother" to them. at the same time, i should be able to play rough games with them. and be able to understand how guys' minds work. and i must say, because of my years of experience with my brothers, i am so good in handling guys. hehe! just ask my boyfriend ;p

If you are an elder sister then you have the responsibility to protect younger sister. It will be an unfortunate situation to support sister for the guy you also love. It depends n you. You can talk to her about it directly.

I imagine that would be very hard for you at the moment, I always do the same with my friends, treat them as family and if they like someone I like I support them. You should just wait and see where things go, but don't wait for this guy because waiting only makes it hurt more and there could be someone out there more wonderful for you. Er-herm anyways, onto the ACTUAL topic haha I think the hardest part about being a sister is that everything is ALWAYS shared, even if you say no the sister goes and takes it or "borrows" it anyways. Even with food, you can't sit down without her asking or taking a bit of your food. I still love my sister to bits though.

I'd say that the hardest part of being a sister, for me, is sharing my mother. I'm 28 and my sister is 7. I was an only child until, at 20, Nikki came along. I don't, and never have, wished her away for even a second. I love that little girl like she was my own child. However...it's still hard sometimes seeing MY mom with another child. Lol. But...for Nikki...I'll share.

Its different in other parts of the world I guess, but in Africa, the hardest part of being a sister is when your junior sister gets a suiter earlier than you-in some cultures, jumping the queue in the order of marriage brings a lot of stress to sisters, some men are asked to pay extra bride price for the "abomination"! But I generally agree with you, sometimes a sister introduces a boy friend to the family and he is immediately welcomed as suitable but for some unknown reasons, the sister begins to mistreat or disrespect her boy friend and telling her not to do so by another sister is a very difficult thing! It can easily rock relationships not just bwtween sisters but with the whole fqamily members!

The hardest part of being a sister for me is when my older sister is right about mistakes I am making. Luckily most recently I took her advice on what would have been the biggest mistake I could have ever made, but this time it is slowly working out.

I hate being the oldest caus eit's like they always come to me for everything.It's hard at times..ANd they expect me to drop everything and do it for them or give them what they need...I think this is the hardest about being an older sister!

I have a sister which is 7 years younger than me. Were like best friends and our communication is very open. If there are conflicts like regards with guys we talk about it either she or me gives way on it. She's closer to me thanmy mother so the hard part of being an older sister is im the one responsible on whatever she's doing. i act like her older sister and at the same time as her mother. She confides on me alot that sometimes i don't have enough time for myself and my partner. she consumes alot of my time. Im just grateful i have an understanding partner but right now im taking it slow to teach her how to be independent and make decisions by herself.

yes it's hard when you keep on thinking about them rather than ourselves. What I mean when we showed so much tolerance to what they did, and ask favors from us without even thinking if we are hurt or not...my sister is always like that...and sometimes I hate her for that.

i have two sisters and one brother, im the second to the eldest she's living now with her own family, so i am now the oldest inside the house aside from mom which is very tough job i tried all my best to be a good and supportive sister but still not good enough, i've been good to them but i got nothing back in return they still dont see what im doing for them...you do good things for them and they will do bad things in return but i cant do anything about that coz at the end of the day...they are still my family.