Is it true love or madness?

Hello Vonn1378! If someone has cheated on me and I decided to take him back, I wouldn’t say that it was neither madness nor true love, I would say that it is Love, but not TRUE love. If it was true love to begin with then he would have never cheated! If it were madness, I would be blinded by the mental emotions that I wouldn’t be able to feel the love but then if it was love, then it would be that love that allows me to look past his faults and give him a second chance. After all, we all have been given a second chance at some point in our lives. I know that I will never be able to forget the fact that he has cheated but I would forgive him in a heartbeat! The truth is sometimes it takes that second chance to secure your thoughts and feelings in a relationship. At that point when I forgive, is when I can move forward and determine if that is the relationship for me, in essence it will keep me open minded to our renewed relationship and easier for me to see things that I must have missed in the beginning. Now if it happens again, then at least I would be content in saying that I tried.

Its hard to forgive such person who has stabbed you in the back but i think he should be given a second chance as he has regonised his mistakes and maybe from now on, he wil be loyal to you. If you really loves him, being far from him will make you suffer and you dont deserve it so its better to forget everything and start life anew in hope that he will respect your love for him

There is nothing wrong to give people chance and I think its not madness. If you do love him, why dont you do it? But you have to be sure that he will never do the same thing in the future.

I guess it's a boundary between true love and pure madness. You might be really in love with him/her to give your relationship another chance to prosper, and maybe you're mad to give him/her a chance to hurt you again. You're just taking risk, hoping the second time around would be lovelier and happier. As for me, I couldn't afford to take that risk...