all or nothing!?

Philippines
July 18, 2007 3:43am CST
I dont know why we all hang on to something we know we're better off letting go.. it's like we're scared to lose what we dont even really have.. some of us say we'd rather have that something than absolutely nothing..but the truth is: "to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.." :((
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carol_m
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Let me put it this way. You have a bf but he loves someone else. You can't let him go not because you love him but because you're afraid you wouldn't find somebody else and you'd end up single the rest of your life. For me, it would be better to let him go and wish him happiness. True, you'd be hurt at first but that's how life is. Who knows, that would be a key to a better relationship..and usually it would make you a stronger person.
andreyjb
@andreyjb (19)
• United States
18 Jul 07
It's not about the things you have. It's about the things you can do with the thing you will always have. Your mind. "Spiritual force is stronger than material force; thoughts rule the world." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
sid556
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
18 Jul 07
I think I know what you mean. Letting go is very hard but often times staying is even harder?? Be more specific.