WOULD YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE JUST YOUR BF's/GF's OPTION?

I think that is called being used when there is nothing better available. No, i would not go for it.

Wow, now that's wisdom! I like it

I am not sure what you are asking. Are you asking if, once we are together, we would be "exlusive," that is to say, we'd only date eachother? Is that what you are asking? Once I find the right person for me and I am the right person for him, there will be no other people for us, where romance is concerned.

no definitely not! why wont i allow him to consider me only as an option if i can be his priority.. does this mean, he may have other options than me.. no way!

I had been in that situation before. I allow myself to be just an option. But now, I woke up and faced the reality that he doesn't really love me coz things didn't change..I was still an option. So we broke up, I moved on, and now I'm happy.. :P