Birthday cakes--do you make them or buy them?

@jillbeth (2705)
United States
July 18, 2007 10:20am CST
Grocery stores offer pre-made cakes, often with cute cartoon characters or other nice decorations, but they are so expensive! Our grandchildren always want a particular cake but with the last birthday I talked them into letting me bake the cake. Do you give in an buy the overpriced cakes or make birthday cakes for your family?
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@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
18 Jul 07
we go to this place called cake ladies. they make specialty cakes for a good deal. they made a spongebob shaped and decorated cake for only $20.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
18 Jul 07
My mom had cake pans in all sort of cartoon characters that she would make for her grandchildren. They really got a kick out of them.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
23 Jul 07
yea, he really liked it, Me, I couldnt do it, I am not that great at decorating with icing. and it costs about the same amount to buy the pan and the decorations as it does to just get them to make it for you, in fact with the spongebob cake I found it cheaper through them. I wil continue to use them throughout the years, they are great at what they do. Kids do really love those shaped cakes =)
• Brazil
17 Sep 07
I used to buy them but now I prefer to make :)
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I don't think I have ever bought a cake, it is just cheaper to make them and I like baking anyway. My daughters will buy cakes. One daughter does not cook much at all anyway. The other is an excellent cook but her kids want the ones with the cartoon characters on them. Sometimes I talk them into letting me make the cake.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Sep 07
We buy them probably because most people including my wife had not learnt baking. Our food habits are different and bread making, biscuit making and cake making is foreign to us.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I hadn't considered the culture differences. Thanks for the food for thought!
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
29 Aug 07
Hi jillbeth! I agree with you that birthday cakes are very expensive especially the made to order ones. If I just listened to my mom before that I have to learn how to bake cakes maybe I would be saving a lot these days. So, I guess I am stuck into buying birthdays cakes for my loved ones and friends. Take care and have a nice day!
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
It's not hard to make a cake. I cheat and usually use box mixes! But I can do a little decorating, so for birthdays I dress them up a little bit myself.
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Sep 07
Well, I normally would buy it since I am not knowing how to make a cake. I hope I could learn how to make the Cake by myself in near future so that I could make a special one for my family as well. WBR,Andy
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
It is more rewarding (for me at least) to make things for my family instead of buying them. I guess because you can put in a measure of love!
• Malaysia
16 Sep 07
hi, jillbeth.. me is buy birthday cake.. but i want to have to try make birthday cake to my family or girlfriend.. like that will more loyalty..
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Yes, I think it is more fun to make things for my family and friends that to buy them.
@brendalee (6082)
• United States
19 Jul 07
I used to buy the store made cakes. But now I hardly ever do. My boyfriend loves to bake. For my daughter-in-laws baby shower he made one cake in the shape of a baby carriage and the other one he made to look like toy blocks but they spelled baby. They turned out beautiful. I would much rather have a cake that was made at home.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
28 Aug 07
My mother loved to bake and decorate cakes, and did a lot of different one for friends. I think her most popular cake was the "bachelor party" cake. She would cut a sheet cake into the shape of a woman's torso and decorate it with a frosting bikini. She used the round coconut "snowball" cakes for the chest, and baked a cherry into the cake you-know-where!
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 07
Hello jillbeth, I normally buy the cake. It is not that expensive here, in my country. I am pretty busy with job and house chores that I find it hard to find time to do it. I will resort to the easiest choice that I have: go to the bakery and let them know what kind of birthday cake I want. I have a niece who loves to bake and sometimes, I asked her to bake it for me. Definitely this is the cheaper way. *smile*
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Yes, the easiest and cheapest way is to have a friend do it for you! My mother loved to bake and decorate cakes. She made the wedding cakes for me and my sister, and her younger brother.
@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 07
I know!I've seen Baskin Robbins cakes!My!That's certainly a lot of icecream in a cake!And of course they cost a lot too!I'd love learn how to bake.I think I'd save a lot of money if only I bake!but in the meantime,I buy my cakes;)
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
18 Jul 07
I love the Dairy Queen ice cream cakes! They are so good. Sometimes my dad buys them for our birthdays.
• Indonesia
18 Jul 07
I used to buy birthday cakes for my family. But now I dont have to buy anymore. I can eat cakes when I want. You must be questioning why could I do that? Becoz my hubby own a bakery himself, so I can just tell my employee to make wht kind an shape exactly like I want without paying any.....
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
18 Jul 07
That sounds like the best way to get a special cake!
@bearfan (63)
• United States
19 Jul 07
I used to but birthday cakes when the kids were little and everyone had something wrong with it. The name was spelled wrong or it wasn't done in the middle or something like that. So I decided to take cake decorating myself and make the cakes. Now I have people calling me to make the cakes instead of the stores and bakeries. I especially enjoy the character cakes like Shrek and Spiderman. It is great because you earn extra money too
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
28 Aug 07
I can do a little cake decorating myself, Mom taught me, and when people know you can do it, you can get lots of requests! She worked full-time but made some extra spending money by taking orders.
@eprado (1467)
• Philippines
19 Aug 07
Whenever we have occassions we usually buy our birthday cakes on a popular bakeshop here. We have nobody in our family who knows how to make one and most often we are busy at work so we just pre-order in advance and have it made for us just to pick it up. :-)
@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
It is more convenient to buy cakes, and they are usually decorated quite nicely. But I enjoy doing my own. I can do a little cake decorating, nothing fancy, but I can make roses and borders!
@stmartin (157)
• Macedonia
18 Jul 07
Because I save money, and because the home-made is the best (making things with your own material, chose by you)I will make my own cake.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
18 Jul 07
Yes, home made is the best! In fact, all this cake talk got me hungry for cake again so I am eating some of the left over cake from my granddaughter's birthday last Sunday (the one I made!)
• China
29 Aug 07
Because I can't make a beautiful birthday cake myself,so when the member of my family's birthday comes,I will buy one for them.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
25 Sep 07
That's sweet of you to remember your family's birthdays.
@pendragon (3348)
• United States
19 Jul 07
I used to buy them, and I still will if someone wants an ice cream cake, but now that i have more time, I like to make them, especially my gf's fav red velvet cake.The first time I tried to make it I ended up looking like i had commited a murder, I had red batter all over me,lol.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
19 Jul 07
None of my family members are bakers. So if we need a cake, we would order them from the confectionery. Afterall, we do not eat cakes often. The number of cakes we eat per year is less than 10. lol.
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@speedy1279 (2665)
• United States
18 Jul 07
Well since two of my three kids are still very young, I make all thier cakes. They may not be perfect like the store bought cakes. But they come from the heart and are much cheaper. I think I spend less than $5.00 to make each of thier cakes every year. I do know that a day will come when my kids won't want me to make them a cake any more yet alone want one period. So I am going to enjoy making them thier cakes while I can.
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
28 Aug 07
Cakes don't have to be perfect to be yummy! Home made cakes taste better 'cause they're made with LOVE! ;)
@ozzydee70 (465)
• Germany
20 Jul 07
since i'm not good in baking cakes, i just buy or order cakes in one popular bake shop every birthday or any special occasions that my family have. yes you're right that its so expensive :(
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@senthil2k (1500)
• India
19 Jul 07
Neither me nor my wife know how to make a cake and so we usually buy the cake outside for our birthdays. But my mothers know perfectly on how to make different cakes, so she used to prepare the cake at home itself, when I was a kid and celebrated my birthday with my Parents. The cake she used to make, was the most favorite for me, even better than the cake made in the shops out there.
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19 Aug 07
i dont know how to cook the cake thats why i have to allways buy the cake only
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