passive me!! help!!

Philippines
July 18, 2007 5:03pm CST
here's the story..i have a roomate,she's nice and all..but the problem is,"her boyfriend"..she keeps on bringing him to our room..and he would stay there for like,a week or 4 days..hello!!he don't even pay the rent,and i'm so uncomfortable when he's around..just last week,he stayed for 4 days..i can't even dress-up properly..what should i do?..im not the confrontational type..help im so annoyed!!
3 responses
myeganda11
@myeganda11 (141)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
try to show a little coldness when the guy is around..or better yet invite some friends too for a slip over..you are not confrontational so let her read the message by doing what she does. I'm sure her boyfriend will soon not be comfortable and move out..give her a taste of her own medicine..goodluck!
shenelyn
@shenelyn (11)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
if she's a friend you can tell it to her straight, pick a good time, like your bonding moments while eating, shopping, cleaning the house, etc. i'm sure she would understand... you don't do the same thing to her. or the best thing is move out
ravinskye
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
18 Jul 07
Well, you could try just talking nicely about it and see what she does. if you explain to her that you feel uncomfortable maybe she will work with you on it. or write her a nice letter or email. i'm not confrontational either, but you don't want to be uncomfortable in your own home.