what would you do if your guy's relatives are sabotaging your relationship?

my first thoughts to your question are that you should not let them tear you apart. If you could be more specific...more details it would be easier to give you a better answer maybe. Why are they sabotaging your relationship?

This is a book that has helped many people and is also used by many of my fellow counselers Boundaries: When to say yes, When to say no,To take control of your life.

If the relationship is based on mutual trust, mutual understanding and mutual feeling, then heaven may fall, one should not take a step back in these matters. Because it is the girls who are more sensitive to love matters and having promised to take her with you, it is bounded duty to honour the commitment. Love actually enhances if one undergoes all these turmoil.

I'd sit down with my partner and discuss it...if he isnt a momas boy (and I dont date momas boys) and if he wanted us to stay togehter (and if I did too) then I'd watn to talk to him and come up with the best course of action

I had an experience with this, my boyfriend's sister once called me and told me to back off him. she pretended that he was his girlfriend. Worse, she called all of my friends and even my sister. Of course at first it was true, but my boyfriend assured me that it wasnt true. I believe him, and that was the end of it. Of course I felt angry at his sister for doing that, but in the end I understand that she's just insecure and she just wanted to make sure I'm good enough for her brother.

I think you should stop and try to see if they are realy sabotaging your relationship because there is also a slight possibility that you are just being paranoid. If not, then why don't you call the guy and ask him straight if his relatives dislike you and also don't be intemediated with your guy's relatives besides you must feel good about you and your guy's relationship don't listen to others as long as your happy.