to fall in love or not?
By xenna1986
@xenna1986 (228)
Philippines
12 responses
@fab315 (1231)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
If you cry it means you're hurt. Hurt, pain and sadness are all part of LOVE. Everytime you cry and get hurt, you learn from it and will be a better lover. If you choose to fall inlove it means you're willing to get hurt and cry. But if you want to protect yourself from crying and getting hurt then don't fall at all. And you'll live a boring life and end up being alone.
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
youre right of course, but sometimes we feel tired from all the heartches and rejections that we are receiving from those we love, from those people that we want to love us back. Life is a bed of roses...thorny roses.. so tiring.
@raj9433327675 (1241)
• India
20 Jul 07
To cry again and again.Love is valiuable and devine thing.For this you have to cry baby.Thanks.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
We don't choose to fall. Neither do we choose to love. The feeling just comes in our hearts. Few people deny the feeling but they know deep down that they're missing something or someone.
Denying love just prolongs the torture and in the end, denying the love felt would still make us cry even more. Doesn't it?
Well, if you haven't tried. Try meeting someone who you really really really like, then he courts you and you reject that courtship. Isn't it more painful seeing him loving someone else, when you could have shared that love with him? So, still you cry.
So the choice is, do you want to love and cry? or do you want not to love but still cry in the end?
Which is the better evil?
Good luck friend. Open your eyes and never let a moment slip away because of fearing for the worst when you can actually have the best if you only learn to try.
=)
@carol_m (709)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
When you fall in love, expect to be hurt. You wouldn't know love until you have experienced its joy and pain. That would make you a stronger person. You should be glad you cried because of love; it means you have loved with all your heart. Don't worry because you'll be rewarded. Someone out there is worthy of your love..you just have to continue loving. Good luck!
@tatzkie (644)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
whether you like it or not... as certain as the gravity of the earth. we need love and we feel love. To fall in love to someone is a choice between who but to fall is inevitable. to cry in the end make us human and thatz the beauty of loving how one can surmise the pain and still continue living and loving.
@lean_rose (262)
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
Because we don't meant to fall in love. It's just like a magic that comes into us. Yes it made us cry, but it doesn't mean you don't want to fall in love again. Its just part of life. We need to got hurt in order for us to be strong in facing trials and hardships especially when it comes to heart aches.Hehe..wala lang!
@shadaab491987 (181)
• India
2 Aug 07
No, NEver Fall in LOVE..
i know it hurts when somone keeps you waiting
and later on says No...its bad.
I prefer to say NO.
I just fell for somone just once and that thought me that you shoul never faal for anyone
• India
10 Aug 07
if ur gettin a positive response 4rm her or him den its worth waitin but if ur not den u should not wait ur only gonna feel depressed and get more frustrated and wat happens happens 4 d best who knows he or she is not meant 4 u life is strange and ur gonna harm urself knowin dat d person u intrested is not wit u be positive maybe she is not worth u
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
13 Aug 07
heje. i am thinking we are riding on the same boat. Weeks ago, i really felt so down and depressed after a break up with somebody. I really wanted to cry much but i kept myself from doing so. Why should i shed a tear for somebody who in return cannot reciprocate what i am giving him. Becuase of what have happened, I pitied myself, and somehow, made a promise to close my door.
Before i decided to be in a relationship, I was really hesistant.. The fear of rejection, and my pride somehow melted throught his amourous words and promises. I never wanted to admit that i was fooled, but i am and i am hurting.
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
2 Aug 07
I never chose to fall in love. It just happened. If I could have chosen, my life probably would be completely different. I have cried a few times over love but the benefits of being in love and being loved outweighed all that. Been married for 20 years and I still haven't "cried in the end". Sure things get tough now and then and I get upset but, deep down, I am grateful to have someone love me as my husband does and to love him as I do.
Nothing's easy. But not loving is a very sad choice and one I am not sure we can even make. It happens and, no matter how you deny it, it's there!
@luohuan1987 (85)
• China
3 Aug 07
But girl,if you don't fall,how do you know you will cry in the end?All these you experienced will be your wealth one day.
• India
10 Aug 07
every1 needs a companion but dat does not mean u need 2 fall in love ya unless u know dat person well and he/she is ready 2 stay by ur side love is a complicated term and people tend 2 miss use it would u go and tel som1 dat u lovehim/her only after meetin dat person in a day or 2 no its not poss not in my life wat do u think would u do it?
