it is right to have a mistress???
@youngwoman123 (12)
United States
July 19, 2007 11:19am CST
i just want to know that if it is right to have a mistress???because i encounter alot of people who has mistress..and i dont understand why??do you think they are not happy to thier relationship?? and i cant understand why people are doing that of kind even they know it is a mortal sin..
hope to hear ur respond of my discusion
5 responses
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 07
Hello youngwoman123,
That is not the right thing to do. Why you need a mistress if you have a lovely wife and beautiful kids? Men always want something beyond their reach. Some men always find ways to have another woman or girl friend though they have a very loyal and beautiful wife and kids. Maybe it is just lust. They don't love the other woman but they just want to have fun and run away from the norm of their marriage life. I disagree with men who think that they have the right to have a mistress, no matter what the reason is...
@youngwoman123 (12)
• United States
19 Jul 07
i think ur are right maybe just because of lust..but i just cant imagine how these things happen..anf far as i concern they are making the girl fool..then why why every one wanted to be became a misttress or what ever...maybe they are happy of what they are doing.
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
20 Jul 07
Hello youngwoman123,
Don't you think it is stupid for a woman to choose to be a mistress of someone else's husband? She will be at the lose end. The man wants to have fun, outside their house and happy family life. Whether their marriage life is good or vice versa, men still find their way to go and get another woman who they deem is better than their wives. But at the end, this lust will bring back the man to his family. Am I right? So lets not waste our time. We have better things to do in life and it is adviceable to go and find a single man to love and to be loved. At least, we can get rid of that problem for being the third party *smile*
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
7 Aug 07
There are many factors and causes why man finds and commits himself to another woman.
One, there are fewer man on earth. Haven't you noticed that most man or right man are attached.
Another would be, the relationship is not growing. Let's say, they got married becuase of force or arranged by parents, or married young and not prepared.
Another cause perhaps, it is their destiny to have found the perfect mate for them after they are married to someone else.
Another, man by nature are polygamous.
Yes, it is a mortal sin to commit adultery and concubinage, however, can you blame them for not having done to prevent it? You will end up realizing that human beings are imperfect.
@prehistoricyall (112)
• United States
11 Aug 07
Are you one of those people who believe its not right if it was turned around? I don't see why women can't use that 'excuse'.
@ckj6981 (194)
• Singapore
19 Jul 07
I also don't know why men like to have mistress, exspecially when men have money in hand they always will do that. I have 2 example here, one is my uncle and one is my friend's husband.
For my uncle, he have a mistress is because he want his wife give birth a baby girl for him but my auntie don't want to give birth any more as they already have 3 sons. My auntie told my uncle, "If you like baby girl, you go outside find another women give birth for you." Because my auntie say so, my uncle really go find a mistress. Today, they already divorce.
For my friend, her hunband have a mistress because my friend gain weight. Is this a good reason for a men to have a mistress?
@youngwoman123 (12)
• United States
19 Jul 07
one reason is money.and they are not happy with therir married life..maybe they do that kinf of things..theres alot of reaon why they do that kind of things..no matter wat the reason is..all i can see is it not right.
@wilynn (751)
• Singapore
19 Jul 07
Sure I think its ABSOLUTELY wrong to have mistresses. Why should one have mistress when they have a wife at home? EIther they divorce the wife first then find play the field. Otherwise, I think its very wrong of them to do such things. It could be sometimes the partner cannot provide what they need but seriously, do it one by one is better. You'll never know what you'll get if you just do it anyhow.
