how to fight sadness???
By mae1216
@mae1216 (658)
Philippines
July 19, 2007 1:58pm CST
It is hard for me to move away from my love. I moved out with my mom and dad in the Riyadh hoping to find my success too profesionally. But, sadly, my boy friend was left in Manila and it is really hard for me to adjust with out him beside me. He usd to be my daily routine. We talk alot everyday, we see each other on the weekends and says i love you alot each day. He check me on my meals and wat I do. I miss him so badly and it makes me really sad. It is hard though we have talked on the internet it is still not the same as having him beside me. I want to hold him now and hug him toght and kiss him like it is the end of the world. But, how, he is miles away from me. I don't know if I can stay this way cause I really miss him alot. What shall I do? I can't think of the best way to fight all of these...
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6 responses
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
I can just imagine how lonely you are right now. When my fiance took his visa exit to Singapore for just a night last June, I was terribly lonely all night long! How much more if we had to move away from one another? Well, I guess you really don't have a choice right now but to live with your situation. I suggest you try to communicate with him through chat. When my fiance was in the States, we would chat all the time, at least 5 hours a day. It was so difficult for us to be apart from each other. Right after we chat, either he would call me on my cellphone or I would have to call him before he went to bed. Our phone bills were so expensive! I can't suggest that you come back, since you just got there. Just be patient. Go on and fulfill your goal and make him your inspiration. Communicate with him all the time and be faithful to each other. Before you know it, a lot of time would have passed and you would be together again. Good luck to you!
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@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
I know I am not alone in this siuation but knowing that I am one of them, it is really sad. The most sad of it i that he don't have an pc to chat to me whenever I want to, he has to go to the shop nd pay for an hour. I was really hard but we have to hold on. Just can't help to cry at night when I am missing his voice. Thanks for the care.
@gloria777 (1674)
• India
20 Jul 07
I can understand your feelings. But in the electronic age, I think its not very difficult to have in contact with your beloved ones. So just handle the situation as it is and make your love grow more stronger.
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@carissa765 (1097)
• United States
20 Jul 07
I really don't know what to tell you just talk alot on the internet because it is pretty much free and cheap to talk. holding him, just remember this absence makes the heart grow stronger, if you guys can make it through this you can make it through anything.. When you do get to see each other, you will feel like it is the first time for everything again. First kiss the first touch the first EVERYTHING. I hope everything works out for you two and is better than ever when you are reunited at last...
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Thanks! I am just thinking the same thing just to lesen my sadness. Yes, it is cheaper to talk on the internet but there were times that you wanted to be with him but you can't. Ohh..it is really hard but I have to hold on and live my life so I can come back for him. Right? I am exited to see him and hold him tight. I just hope it is still the same as we are before.
@senthil2k (1500)
• India
20 Jul 07
When you love someone so dearly and when You have move and stay away from them, then that is the worst thing to happen in anyone's life. Sorry that you have to stay away from your dear ones.
Can you ask your dear ones to stay with you ? Or your BF can find some job at the same place where you are ? Also you should try to get some job there at the BF place atleast ? That way you can stay together and love for ever.
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@madrush (22)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
now this is a trial of fate. i'd like to see what's in store for you and your bf, it is so rarely those couples who went separate ways indefinitely lasts long and stay together. I don't intend to be pessimistic, but i can suggest half the part that you stay strong and be prepared for what fate may decide upon you both, perhaps that sadness will fade away with the love you have for him one day, and you might find another or he might.
However, there's another way, work well on your communication and maintain it, work hard for now and ask that your bf will work the same and exert his effort to go there in riyadh and or perhaps after some time you can vouche for him for his immigration there in your place in riyadh. I know why you moved out of manila, no questions asked... =) so vouche for him once you've become an immigrant there.