omg! i hate my freaking mother! hate her, hate her!
By Jennifer21
@Jennifer21 (2476)
United States
July 19, 2007 2:21pm CST
I need to rant!
I just realized why I haven't been talking to my mother for awhile.
She is such a BI*CH!
I hate her, literally!
She has done nothing but ruin my life, and when I call her and ask her for a little information, she lies to me!
I asked her if there was any cure or medication I could take to cure TMJ a dental problem (she is a dental assistant), and she said some stupid BULLSH*T!
"NO there's no cure, and no medication to help, just suffer and deal with it." is what she basically said.
I called another dentist, and they to told me there was a cure and treatment, exactly opposite of what my mother said!
She just pisses me off so bad sometimes, and is a good for nothing piece of SH*IT!
I would think that after everything she has done to ruin my life, she would try and change, but NO!
She will never change and try to help her own child and give me some advice!
OMG! I am just so mad at her!
Have you ever been so mad you just wanted to SCREAM?
From now on, I am through with her!
I have vowed this before, but I am serious now.
I hate her!
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3 responses
@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
19 Jul 07
I was diagnosed with TMJ about 17 years ago. I was surprised to find out out that over 80% of musicians suffer from it, due to gritting our teeth and locking our jaws when we are about to, or playing a difficult passage.
I went for some treatment for it and it was expensive and excruciatingly painful. Myself, the dentist and also the therapist who were working on it decided it was not worth pursuing the treatment because it was literally worse than the disease itself.
Very severe cases might be worth the pain and expense, but it's not worth it otherwise, unless they have new treatments for it now... which I honestly kind've doubt.
Believe it or not I think your Mother was doing you a favor trying to steer you away from the painful, expensive treatment and often doesn't work.
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
19 Jul 07
So, are you saying there isn't even a pain killer that could help?
I would think there is, considering they have pain killers for just about everything.
My mother do ME a favor?
I don't think so, my mother has done NOTHING for me.
Thanks for the response.
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@filmbuff (2909)
• United States
19 Jul 07
TMJ is a chronic condition, and it's very rare that doctor's would prescribe painkillers for it, because essentially you would be on them forever and that isn't a viable solution.
If it's caused by grinding your teeth, wearing a mouthguard when you sleep my alleviate some of the symptoms. To be honest though, and from my own experiences and the medical opinions that I received, it's really not worth treating (aside from the mouthgaurd) unless the case is severe.
A servere case would be contanst pain, being unable to eat and talk.
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@poestalker (2)
• United States
19 Jul 07
Sounds like shes a bit stuck up and doesn't really want to take the time to talk with you about any problems you might be having.
You are 21, out of the house and on your own. I sure hope that you have the money to pay for your dental problem and if not I hope she at least helps you out with that. Thing you need to remember about parents is they raise you and give you ultimate attention. At 18 we leave our parents and they need to readjust. Now that shes got her own "things" going on alot of parents just disconnect until your wedding and grand-babies come.
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
19 Jul 07
Oh how wrong you are!
My mother did not raise me, she neglected and allowed me to be physically, mentally, and sexually abused!
I hate her!!!!
She did NOT give me 'ulitimat attention!'
The only attention she ever gave me was to tell me how I deserved being abused, neglected, and treated like a piece of sh*it.
You say you hope she will pay for my dental problems if I cannot afford?
Hell no she won't!
I am not trying to be rude to you, don't think that, but I am just mad, and I Hate her.
I am through with her for good!
Thanks for the response.
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@CoffeeAnyone (3210)
• Canada
19 Jul 07
The very best thing you can do for yourself is to be a better person then your mother ever was, is or ever will be!
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