He's Mad at me cause I surprised him, and now he might not see me this weekend!?

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My boyfriend was watching his brother for 2 weeks. We are going through long distance relationship (3-4 hour drive about) and I couldn't stand the wait. When his brother finally left I asked if I could come and he did tell me No. A girlfriend of mine advised me to see him anyway, and was sure he'd be happy to see me. I was hesitant cause I didn't want him mad. But I came anyway. I surprised him, and he was mad at first, but I told him if he really wanted me to go I would. But he decided to help me bring all my stuff in and I stayed for 3 days. Every thing seemed fine. He said he wasn't mad anymore and that he was coming to my town on Friday. So I left and was gonna get ready for him to come up here on Friday. I return home to my parents, (which is a half ways point where my cat was) after a 2 hour drive. I go online to see he changed his relationship status to "Single" on facebook and myspace. I immediately call to see what's up. He said he was really mad that I just showed up like that and now he probably isn't coming to see me Friday. I told him I was sorry I really thought he was okay with it once he saw me, and I said I wouldn't do it again. I was just trying to be all romance novelish where I leaped into his arms after a long parting and every thing would be okay. I told him I realized that wasn't the thing to do anymore and I wouldn't. But now I don't even know if he's coming. He said he was now... but now I don't know. He seems so fickle. This would be the first time in 2 months since he moved that he actually is coming back to town. I drove there twice all ready and I asked if he could help pay for the trip and he said, "No, because I am making trips to see you as well now, starting this weekend." But now I feel he changed that. I am sure I was wrong by surprising him like that, but I had a lot of stuff in my car and if he really didn't want me there, he didn't have to help me unload it. I feel pretty betrayed spending 3 days there, him treating me like everything was normal, then to leave and him being that mad. Maybe he felt betrayed too that I just came over like that, but it had been 2 weeks, and I did say it wouldn't happen again. People make mistakes. :(