why people oftenly cheat to their wives and husbands?

May be husband and wife starts cheating each other when they feel that they do not get enough love and starts searching for love outside. They often fall in such relationships when felt neglected from their own spouse. That's what I feel.

I have cheatedon my husband for many diffrent reasons. One was because when I was NOT cheating on him he was accusing me of cheating and kept drilling it in my head that I decided to make it true. Another reason was that he was utterly ignoring me and leaving me home with the kids all the time while he went out with his friends and didnt let me go out with any of my friends. There are many more reasons. The thing is every one has there reasons and it is diffrent for everyone.

men are most often stereotyped to be the one who cheat more, but even the women cheat too. When one of the couple cheat, it is clear that the love for the other half is fading or gone already. Otherwise, he/she won't do things that will hurt the other person's feelings. Getting into a married life should not stop couples from having fun. One should always try to experiment or try new things so that the relationship won't get boring. If you just take things for granted, in the long run, husband will look at the wife like a sister and there will be no excitement at all, so husband or wife seek for new adventure/affair with someone else that excites them.

The reason for that is to chase the excitement. Marriage gets longer, it becomes boring. If there is nothing to refresh the relationship, it will be weaker and weaker. The couple may change to get together because of commitment. If they are not responsible for the commitment, it is not strange that they are not loyal to each other.