How do I know if my husband cheated?
By mommaofgirls
@mommaofgirls (6)
United States
July 20, 2007 10:30am CST
I was online and I ran across an adult video clip. The only things you could see on the man was from the lower torso down, his arms, and his hands. I swear it looked like my husband. Everything looked like my husband. I mean everything. It really bothered me because I felt like I was watching my husband with another woman. I told him about it that night and he denied it. He said he was too shy to do something like that. He's always told me that he would never cheat on me, but I just feel like he is keeping something from me. Could this be it? I need some advice on how to bring it up to him again. How do I tell if he's lying to me? I want to know that truth. I think I deserve that much.
1 response
@kate635 (126)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
You don't have to over react. Most men look the same especially that you've only seen it on a video clip. Just trust your instinct, if there is something unlikely about your husband just keep it to yourself but do investigate discretely. Look for signs. But the truly best thing to do is to show him your affection. Always tell him you love him on a daily basis. Most of all make him feel that you trust him. Try something different that would fascinate and intrigue him. Don't just let the fire you felt when your relationship was new fade away.
Yes, you deserve to know the truth, but what if there is no truth about your accusations, it will just hurt you both. However, if there is truth in what you think, at least you have done your best in saving the relationship and that only proves that you love your hurband and it will just make him bad to know he ruined your trust. There is nothing wrong in suspecting our husband sometimes of cheating, but isn't it much easier if we let loose of the negative emotions and strive to think of the positive? It will emit positive energy and things would be lighter to carry.
