Do you ever wonder what might have been?
By UDDERONES
@UDDERONES (887)
United States
July 20, 2007 9:37pm CST
My husband and I were doing our karaoke job and we were at a bar a few weeks ago. Well I had to go to the truck and when I went passed the pool tables this guy looked familiar, but I didn't think about it until I got to the truck. On the way back I purposely looked and it was a guy that I dated in high school. I had a major crush on him. Well later he came over to my table and was talking to two other girls (that are gay) that were at my table. I said hello and he said hello it's been a long time. I said yes. I asked him how he knew these girls and we chit chatted. When I left to load the truck up he held the door open for me. It made me get to thinking about what might have been.
Do you ever wonder what might have been if this happened or that? I am just curious. Now it has me wanting to see him again.
P.S. I did see him the other day at the grocery store now. It is so weird. It has been like 10 years and now I have ran into him twice in two weeks. Weird.
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@shambuca (2524)
• United States
24 Jul 07
Oh yes there was this guy that I still have dreams about -- when my husband and I broke up after dating 7 years I met this guy (who used to play on the same softball team as my husband) and he was just so HOT.....long dark curly hair - blue eyes- 6'3"-- and OMG- I still smile when I think of him. If I had gotten together with him- I don't know if I would have gone back with my husband so I always wonder about that- I would rather not run into this guy cause I have changed a lot since then (not for the better).
Good luck with your trip down memory lane- if he looks as good as he used to it could be kind of hard to deal with.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
21 Jul 07
I guess it is just human nature to wonder what could have been and yes I have caught myself doing it but then I stop and think that I am happy where I am and that I wouldnt want to be anywhere else. I think that things happen for a reason and if you were supposed to be with that person then you would have been!!!
@UDDERONES (887)
• United States
24 Jul 07
Thanks Cassy1976
You see I am not happy where I am at. I mean don't get me wrong, I am happy about some things, but mine and my husband's relationship is so weird. I don't want to go into to many details, but everytime we have a serious talk (which he doesn't like like to do) then he says he will change, but nothing every changes. I have asked him to go to counceling and he will not do it.
So now, I can't help but wonder about this other guy. Last night I had a dream about him. This is all so weird. I probably won't see him for another ten years, but who knows.
