What do you do if someone's a lousy kisser?
By jazzyjess
@jazzyjess (199)
United States
July 21, 2007 3:13am CST
How important is it to you that the person you're dating is a good kisser? And, what do you do if they're not? I know for me, I lose attraction for someone if they're a really sloppy kisser...
5 responses
@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
women liked to be kissed in a nice but different way I guess.It is important that men should know how to kiss women because there's an art of it. Women know that the kiss given has love or sincerity.Not just a plain kiss.If you're a sloppy kisser, there's really a tendency that the one you kissed will lose the attraction.
@jazzyjess (199)
• United States
21 Jul 07
There is definitely an art to it. And I think you're right -- if it's really sloppy, it seems like the person isn't very sincere. It's like they're in a hurry. Personally, I think a slow, gentle kiss is best.
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@Uskglassraven (39)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
oh nice.. wait one question, how can you tell exactly if it is a sloppy or lousy kiss? O_o im sorry.. kinda a little green on this topic .
@jazzyjess (199)
• United States
22 Jul 07
If it's sloppy, usually you get a lot of their saliva on your face! A lousy kiss just depends on whether you like it or not. If you really don't like it, it's lousy!
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
21 Jul 07
It is very important to me that the person I am with is a good kisser...I can't stand someone who doesn't know how to kiss and you can't even teach them the proper way..I am the type of person who likes to kiss the person I am with if I am attracted to them..so if he can't kiss, he pretty much turned me off...
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
23 Jul 07
There is nothing worse than someone with bad breath trying to kiss you- YUK—I’m happy in a relationship- and he is a great kisser- but let me tell you- I had to kiss a lot of frogs prior to finding him! I just didn’t kiss them often- and certainly didn’t go out again!
@CinderInMySoul (4717)
• United States
21 Jul 07
Teach them! lol simple. a sloppy kiss can be really disgusting. if you really like the person but the lousy kisses are casting a cloud, teach them how.
you dont have to be mean or insulting at all. and certainly dont say anything like "you're a lousy kisser"..instead try telling them "it would really excite me if you kissed me like this.." and then demonstrate for them. you might have to do this a few times, but eventually they will catch on that kissing they way you've shown them is "beneficial" to them! lol
