What man really wants in a woman?

Philippines
July 21, 2007 4:12am CST
Man has a standards, some of my guy friends, they want their wife to be super sweet.someone who will be their friends, after a tiring day, when they went home, their wife is there, smiling at them, hugging them, asking what happen to their day, cooked for them, taking care of them. Looks familiar for me, they like woman who looks like their mother.... how about you men out there, what are your standard in choosing a woman?
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@bishu_sinha (1457)
• India
8 Dec 07
My husband and I made the decision to completely share our finances, both because its practical and as a symbol of the two of us being one complete unit for the rest of our lives. But that doesnt work for everyone and thats okay. Sometimes people grew up like that and its natural to them. Sometimes theyve seen someone who has been taken advantage of or had that happen to them, like a spouse stealing from them. Sometimes they've seen or experienced relationship abuse and need to keep their finances separate. While these sound like trust issues, they may be or may not be. She may openly say she doesnt trust him-then it obviously is. But if she says she does, then maybe she doesnt and wont say it, but maybe she does. But sometimes wounds go pretty deep. I've known some people who have separate finances their whole lives, and Ive known some whove done it for several years until they decided to combine, whenever they were BOTH ready. There can be a lot of reasons for this, but I would assume that, short of a husband demonstrating that he is untrustworthy or having significant debts, etc., the need for a woman to have her money separate is probably more reflective of something in her rather than in the relationship. And I think thats okay. And bear in mind that she may not even know why she needs to have it separate, but that doesnt mean there isnt a perfectly valid reason there.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Dec 07
There are so many things a man and a woman can do together and greatest among them is procreation. Companionship is next and similarly responsibility to raise the family. Man cannot live alone and therefore needs someone who can talk to him/her and take care of that person in times of need. At old age, man needs a companionship of women more than when he was young.
@fredgame (1260)
• China
21 Jul 07
In fact that will be a perfect woman, if a woman does this to her man she'll ever be the first and formost loved one and the man will not look at another woman a second time. i'd also like my to be have these ehtics. goodness me.
• India
21 Jul 07
Yes as you rightly said ,a man would want a woman who is always true him and showers him with love without any expectations.She should be caring and should be able to understand his inner feelings