Will it be difficult to keep a long term relationship going through university?

July 21, 2007 2:52pm CST
I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we start university in September and are both going to the same place. However I can't help but wonder if university life will limit the chances of us coming out of university still as a couple. I know that university is supposed to be the best time of your life and everything, so my question is: do you have to sacrifice one to get the other? Has anyone else had similar experiences?
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4 responses
• China
22 Jul 07
Hi,may i call you friend?After reading what you post here the only thing i can say is i wish you good luck and be happy and optimistic.
22 Jul 07
Of course! Thanks a lot, I'll definitely try to be optimistic, my relationships worth it :)
• Singapore
22 Jul 07
Nope, I don't think it will be difficult. I know of many couples who managed to stay together throughout all their years at university. It really depends on how committed you guys are at your relationship. If both of you are determined to be together, nothing will stop you from succeeding. All the best!
22 Jul 07
Thanks a lot :) I think we are both very committed to each other and definitely want to get through university, so hopefully we will. I think it is just another hurdle in the relationship we have to overcome :)
• Macedonia
22 Jul 07
Well, I think that you still might be couple. But you need to know one thing.. At university you will meet 1000new friends, from which 100 will be quite from which 10 will love you, and the hard part is to keep yourself to your boyfriend, and everything will be OK. But the same means and for your boyfriend...
22 Jul 07
Thanks for your response, it's interesting to hear your thoughts :) Have you been in a similar situation then? I'm glad to hear you make lots of friends there, I'm definitely looking forward to that!
@vickyjun (35)
• China
22 Jul 07
It won't be difficult to keep the relationship,I think.Please believe the true love between you.
22 Jul 07
Thanks :) That's a really nice view on it, I'll definitely have that in mind from now on :)