The nerve....

Here is the problem as I see it. Whenever these types of petty meaningless squabbles pop up on Mylot, it usually ends up with a couple of members being banned or having discussions removed. And you know what happens to all the people whoe were genuinely interested in the members discussion and took the time to answer? They lose those credits and are punished for doing nothing wrong. The way I seeit, if there is a discussion that offends you or that you don't like, mbe an adult and move onto something that suits you better and leave it alone for those of us who aren't easily offended. I'm not pointing the finger at anyone in particular because everyone involved in these arguments is wrong

Some people need to avoid being drama llamas, eh?

Yeah I know what you mean. I know exactly what you mean, and it drives me crazy too. People need to grow up, and get a life. I'm sick and tired of people fighting everywhere I go on line. We'll never be able to stop them, but we can atleast make some points voicing our opinions.

Totty, you didn't see the worst "face" on mylot yet. In this case you are dealing with one obsessed religion person. In some cases group of people are bulling one person. Some people who are popular here are working with mylot gang and reporting good discussion to be removed. I think they have fun doing it. Seems like mylot admin no longer cares, so good discussions are removed and nice users are banned. Like you said, we here not for fight, but like in real life, fight and anger seems to be second nature for some people.

I am trying but I still get hot headed over certain subjects...lol. I think we all have a bit of that in us. As far as people getting banned thats a crying shame and if it comes down to me getting banned over something I say or post than I think its time for me to move on from mylot. I dont think anyone should be banned for petty differences only if you are warned for being malicious and continue to be.

I think I know what is going on here. I started following this little cat fight this morning. I have researched the posts of the two people involved, and I have a very definite opinion about who is at fault here and needs to "chill out". I think it is a stupid shame that totty got banned for this but, so be it. The admins here don't seem to be very active. They only react to reports. I have been on a multitude of forums many more users than this one has. The admins in those forums cruise it regularly. Here? No so much.

You know that the rules say we have to be over 18 years old. I often wonder if these people are 18, as they are so immature.

I was part of the arguement, and I must admit, I may took it a little too far, but this woman just racked my nerves for calling me names. I am feeling quite better now, I just took a break, and here I am, still here, and doing just fine. I will just stay away from the person with TOO many overopinionated ways. So, I'm chill now.

I know exactly what you mean! I was going to respond to a discussion earlier but then I saw all the drama caused by one over opinionated member, which I thought was tacky and childish! We are all given an opportunity to voice our opinions her on Mylot but in a reasonable approach, there is no need for name calling, pointing fingers or even JUDGING! That is not what we are here for! I feel that they way some members chose to respond are flat out outrageous for this forum! If they do not like a discussion then I feel that they should move on, come on now! There are over 100,000 more discussions for us to choose from! Although I would hate to accept it, there are the kinds of members here who take pride in putting others down just to make they feel better, but this is NOT the place for those shenanigans! Here on Mylot it is neither about who is right nor who is wrong! The fact is we all contribute in one way or another, but there are those who are just prone to picking on the members who aren’t up to par with their standards! Which is pathetic? I really hope they grow up and stop tying to poison this great community we have!