my crush got married.....

No you will never get over this beautiful feeling.It is a natural thing.A private and personal pleasure of your own.As long as you are not hurting anybody nothing wrong in carrying this crush with you.

There is nothing to have crush. Crush is an admiration. To admire someone is one nicest feeling that we felt. I have a crush too and i know him for more than one year. But i think he don't have an idea that i crush on him. BEcause one thing he is a friendly type person. And we don't have time hanging around each other. I just know him. Thats it! and no other attachment. Even he is nerd but then he is friendly. We have a different believe about religion. He don't believe in it. But then i still admire him. His smart and intelligent. Anyway, You should happy for your crush. And make him as your inspiration to have a better relationship with your boyfriend right now . gud day!

We all have a crush that we will always remember . the important thing is that we move on and let it stay like that. I am sure that many people chase their crush only to be dissapointed coz he or she is not like they expected....

I think it is okay to have a crush. As long as it does not destroy your current relationship. You should be happy for him because he now have a family of his own and have a son.

Hi Zelmarq. You will get over this feeling once you are married and have children. We always idealise the people for whom we fall in love and we think they are all that! Try to stop looking at his pictures or his page on friendster. Focuse on your boyfriend of 8 years. Good luck Zelmarq!

no hesitation any more,at this age you should take it seriously of marriage.hope you soon be maried nicely

you'll soon get over it. move on don't dwell on that feeling. you have a boyfriend now. be happy with what you have. =)

You are not wise enough as you crushed a lot of times with a guy but could not bind him as your lifelong companion - this sound as a failure in an examination after long time study. Whatever is you should not face back, tied your bell more expert way for your future goal and do not take smeel of rotten past and be frustrated for it - just seek rosy smell for your future fortune.

ahhh so we all go through teh same things... u jus' rembr... he has his own family... n now u hav a boyfriend who knows wt could ahppen soemday u'll hav ur own family... n u'll think bac n jus' laugh bout' it... belive me... u r jus' feelin' bad ur not part of his life... if u had done soemthin bout' before may be there could hav been a chance... but now u hav a chance.. with ur present bf.. so do evrythin' u wanted to do n be evrythin' u anted to be with this guy... dont lose this chance... ok take care... bye

Having crush on somebody i think is normal for us people.. The attraction will always be there its just up to us to control it. Don't mind your that about that guy getting married or having babies, you have your boyfriend now and i assure you that better things are ahead on both of you.. I wish you happpiness in your present relationship my friend..(:

I'm sure this feeling will pass. Your just being possesive about your crush besides your happy with your BF right? So stop thinking about him or his baby. Stop checking his friendster account that's a start. And don't be shy in admitting you have a crush because everyone have one.