What would make you decide to change churches?

The pastor is preaching right but I feel like the kids there are having more influence on my kids than they should have in a negative way. And I believe that my kids need to find new friends. Also when I told my kids we were all going to start taking notes at church, So that we could retain better what the pastor said, the two oldest rebelled and said I was being unreasonable and that I was mean and that no one else does. And I even set up the notebooks I even included their dad and myself so it was not like it was me asking them to do something I was not planning to also do myself. All I asked them to do was one write down what the Sunday school lesson was, then I told them to write down what did I learn from this, then three I told them to write down how it could be applied to their lives. Then I fixed a space to write down any memory verse, (the referance) and on a separate page I wrote out the verses, and told them that they would have to copy these verses three times each, (this to help the practice handwriting, spelling and to remember their verses) Then lastly I fixed a space for them to write down any prayer requests. I do not feel that this is being unreasonable do you?? I am actually thinking this would help them to learn how to be able to take batter notes later on, plus would help them to remember what was preached. As for being perfect I don't believe I could ever reach that, not in this life. I believe Jesus Christ was the only one that ever walked the face of the earth that was perfect. Anyway, thanks for responding to me I appreciate it. And I am glad you have a church home you are comfortable with.