Let me ask you something

United States
July 22, 2007 12:49pm CST
If cousin wants to visit you and she never call to tell you at all but she told your brother, how do you feel about that?Here is the thing, My cousin who lives in Lowell and she wants to visit California next month. I have no idea that she is about to come here for vacation at all and I just heard it from my brother. she is going to stay in My HOUSE but she never tell me that she is coming. If you guys think it is a surprise then it never happen cuz last month I was asking if she wants to come and she said NO. so she comes and doesn't want me to know? I'm wondering why? So, if this happen to you what do you think about that? how do you feel? I didn't call to ask if she is coming or not yet and I dont know what is she thinking?
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judyt00
@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
23 Jul 07
If someone showed up at my door unannounced, expecting to stay moe than a few hours, I'd be giving them the phone book opened to hotels and motels, and simply tell them they can find their own room, that I am not open for business. how very rude of her!.
smileonstar
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
23 Jul 07
I know. even her wedding, she didn't even ask me to go but my brother. i dont know about her but if she separates me from her family then just let me know and then it will be easy for me to treat her like someone else. Until now, I dont call or ask her about that yet, i want to know if she calls me or not. She thinks the way she does is the right way or sth. My brother told me that she knows that im busy so she doesn't want to brother me... what??? brother me cuz of that? oh well, do whatever she want but dont mess up with me... how if you dont call your sister and u go there to expect that they know you are going? hehehhehe... unbelievable
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judyt00
@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
23 Jul 07
perhaps she feels that since your brother lives with you, he is the head of the household and he is the one she should talk to. You should tell your brother that he should tell her that YOU are the head of the household, not him
pamcake
@pamcake (276)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Are you close to your coulsin? Maybe she wanted to suprise you. Do you own your home, and your brother is staying there with you? That would be pretty disrespectful! I think you should call her, and get is talked out before she gets there..or it may be a big mess waiting to happen..or talk to your brother about it.
smileonstar
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
22 Jul 07
Of course I own a home and My brother is staying with me too... I know and I feel bad when I heard that from my brother. She is not that close to me but not that close to my brother either. All I know she was asking for my brother's phone and then she told him not me. I dont know what is she thinking!!! but if she comes, I let her stay but I dont feel that she is respecting me... She married to Italian guy and her husband never like our family, not her and not mine... Her parents don't like him either but she loves him so they let her do what she wants to do. I dont care about her problem but this is my house at least she tell me.
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Geminigirl
@Geminigirl (1909)
• United States
22 Jul 07
I would not be happy at all. I would contact the cousin and tell her, if she is staying with you, she needs to call first and ask you if it is ok first, before making plans. Otherwise she can't come.