How would you define the real MAN??

have you found the kind of man the way you describe THE REAL MAN? if you did well you are so lucky. i agree on what you said a real man is the one that makes a woman feels like a real woman. but now a days a man also finds a woman who makes them feel like a real man. the one who will cook for them and make them feel like a king. i hope i can find myself a REAL MAN as well

Well real man in general is a person whom you can depend and lean on, is a person whould never fail you, is a person who lives up 2 his word and promise, is person who's got his priorities identified, is a person who cares and loves others, a person who stands by you. And the most important thing, he is a person who is capable of making the right judgment and never biased, never overreacts and finally is a person whos got a high sense of ethics.. It is never about how he looks like or how tough he is, being a man is never about yelling, shouting, controlling or phyical credit, being a man is certain qualities that must be available in a person before you could call him a man... Am I right, your MajestY Dew The 1ST ?

I guess I'm a bit old fashioned in that way... I don't think a real man should cry in public.

Hi MorningDew, I am really not sure whether the question you have put forth is directed towards the men also. But still I would like to respond to your question. In my opinion, a real man is one who gives respect to the persons weaker to him, and this includes all the animals as well. I believe that there is no manly behaviour involved in supressing and ill-treating persons who are weaker in physical or economical or mental strength. One who can respect all these, is a true man in my opinion. Because it takes a lot of courage to do that.

I don't think a man's relationship to a woman should define him being a real man. In fact, I think being a "real man" is something that is defined only by one's character, and requires exactly the same traits as being a "real woman". So I guess you could say that I don't believe in being a real man or a real woman, only in being a "real human being". And to be a real human being, you have to be compassionate, caring, honest, and ethical. At least in my opinion. =)

To define a man would not be just about showing love to his gf/wife but to look at what he does in life for him self and others around him, you Look at the stero typical british male, they mostly work Monday - Friday, Friday Nights go out get hammered, Saturday go out with the lads get hammered (very drunk) Sunday sleep all day nearly and then eat sunday roast, where i live thats how most men are, so id say where i live to the women who are married to these men,or going out with them they are perfect cause thats who there bfs/husbands are, its apart of them there personalitys, the way i see it is the real man is only defined by the person who loves him, and people who are friends with him.