My friend broke-up with his Girlfriend.. Is it my fault??
By JBrulez
@JBrulez (663)
Philippines
July 22, 2007 4:02pm CST
I have a friend and we've been buddies since we were still kids, we are actually neighbors.. One day he introduced to me his girlfriend named Trish.. It was nice meeting her and im happy because she was my friend's girl..The meeting goes normally well.. Until one night Trish called me up on my celphone, I was surprise upon knowing that it was her that's why im hesitant to answer but i thought there must be some sort of an emergency because it was already late so I answered the call.. She asked me of a lot of questions.. Questions that are not proper to be asked especially with our situation, questions like do you have any girlfriend now? are you happy now? And worst is that she was askin me out for a date.. I was startled with what she's saying and so I just said sorry I can't answer any of that and immediately cut of the conversation.. The next day, my friend came to me and he looks very sad, I ask him why and he said that Trish,his GF, broke-up with him..He said that Trish's excuse is she's inlove with another guy but she never told him who that guy is.. Damn I felt so guilty and I felt I had something to do with their break-up.. I know I haven't done anything wrong except answering the call last night.. And Until now I never told my friend what happened the night before the break-up when Trish called me up and asked me those kind of questions.. I'm afraid are friendship gets jeopardize if ever he gets to know i was the guy who caused their break-up.. I know I acted in good faith but until now I can't help but to feel guilty about it.. its sad...!
2 responses
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
23 Jul 07
I really would not worry, I would tell your friend what happened..But I dont think it was you..Why on earth would she break up with him only after a few questions, you had not even been out on a date, maybe there wasnt even a chance anyway...She sounds silly..
@tweener (26)
• Philippines
23 Jul 07
Don't blame yourself. You have nothing to do with their break-up. Its the girl that should be blamed because if she really loved your friend, then she would not give up on looking for somebody else easily. It is also the fault of your friend because she did'nt completely know her girlfriend. You did not do anything wrong, it really happens to relationships that are not that strong. so cheer up.